Toolman,

Test must be conducted before the panties are washed, and if you have had sex while she wore the panties between washings you won't know who's it is.

www.getcheckmate.com

I am on the receiving end of this. My H was away on a military deployment (returned Dec. '05) for 15 months, and had an A with a female soldier while overseas. Not all Army wives are unfaithful! I certainly was not, and while I was proud of my husband being gone and being faithful at home, and holding down the house -- he was out having a PA with another soldier!

Indeed!

I waited 3 weeks (of NO sex with W) to be sure of NO False positive from myself.

Then I started looking.

For good or bad they seemed to average sex about Once a week so it didn't take long to get some REAL Evidence.

Sure did Help to cut through all the [censored], I can tell you.

With other things (such as viewed text messages) Like All WS's, she had a "story" all ready and waiting.

Not much she could say with this though.
Heck, you get 2 kits per box .....I still got the other one floating around somewhere in the garage.

As ALL sex took place at work, (behind locked doors and security) it was Heck to get any proof.
I found the check mate system at almost the same time I found MBers.
Believe me, just having some proof that I wasn't just paraniod / crazy , sure helped me.
I was going nuts in the interm, KNOWING Something was going on .....but not knowing what.

Man. I thought finding out he bought her a navel ring the same time he bought me one for Christmas was bad.......

(found the reciept...on the same reciept....grrr)

Course I got two of the biggest "clues" running around my house now....But I prefer to think of them as blessings...

- Kimmy

OK, what the heck is MBers?
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AHHH Look at the site you are currently on and take the first letter of each word and then you got MBer's <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />

GEEEEeeezzzz , thanks,(MBer's}
What about this SUDDENLY happy wife I got??
Is she wise that the "jig is up"?
Also I never said this is my 1st marrage. & her 2nd.
does that change things mently BEing #2 For Her ?? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />

I caught her in a little lie today,
Bold Faced,( did not confront)It would have blown my spy ring! ! Is this lying a Habbit? or what?
Can it be stopped?

When were you there?? In 1983 when I was there that would have been a great ratio!! 29 stumps was pretty bad. 2 hours from civilitation....It was really bad there. I remember calling my Dad telling him that th efew women that were there remained from the filming of "planet of the apes" However there was an extemely attractive MP who would run about 6 miles per day with a night stick. She needed to thump some idiots at least once a week....I got a page 11 entry for dating her when I was an E-3...she was an E-5...some jar head Sgt was mad she would "date me"...oh well...sorry for thread jack..

Yes...there is a special breed of scum bag who preys on military wives....they should run scared....

Toolman,

What was the lie? And yes. It's to be expected. The Lie become life for the WS.

The lie was sometning I picked up on key logger.
Mysterious person with an Email that Is erased every time. + the addy doesn't come up as a good one!
I got a part of only one message , all others have been back spaced away.- erased I could still get!.
I asked about the subject in plain conversation & It was said to be a thing that was never heard if before! But I know it was taked about just an hour ago, & I was mentioned I a puzzeling way. The w face showed the tell tail sign of being cornered. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />
so I dropped it to not blow my cover , After all I want more info.

Sounds like it's time to get a real key logger. One that takes screen shots, and can not be erased... You know your on to it, you just need the solid proof.