I'm so glad you told your sister about this, I didn't have anyone to talk about it with as my parents are older and in poor health too, I wasn't going to add to their problems unless I had too, thankfully it never came to that.
Thank God for a wonderful lady I met here on D-day, she truly kept me sane through those first weeks and I would try to go to her before reacting to some of the stuff I found out or when I would trigger bad. She talked me down late into the evening sometimes and I don't know what I would have done without her.

It's also good that your H know that she knows about it too..nothing puts a damper on the sweet little relationship like other people knowing about it...when H told his brother about it, he got an inkling that once others see it, it's an ugly ugly thing, not some sweet 'found my soulmate' R...A's hate reality because they are anything but...

Your trip away is coming at the perfect time IMHO, make sure you use the time wisely. Remind your H why you are the one he loves and wooo him so much that the OW will look like the non-entity she is next time he sees her.
It would be great if you got the HNHN book in before you left for your trip..it really is a great resource....Let us know how you're doing.

Thanks for your words!! It all helps! He just left and we had some good kisses. I know he will call me along the way so that helps. I ordered the books on Sat. so they should be here before we leave. I also bought another book at the local Borders on Emotional Affairs and how to affair proof your marriage. I read part of it and marked some things. He took it with him so that he could read it tonight. I hope!! Trying to stay busy. Will let you know how it goes. My little guy is still out of it from the oral surgeon so I am catching up on housework and stuff right now but I will be back later!