I can now see why NC is so important, I get several steps ahead and all it takes is one second of visual C and it really sets one back. I have little time left at the office and Can't wait til it is so over with but I also have more to worry about because OM has told me this week that he will find me I can't hide. Don't know what that is suppposed to mean and really hope it's just his way of throwing a temper tantrum. Funny though, all of these imperfections coming out in the open, and I thought he was the prince of all princes. WHAT WAS I THINKING? MY H is on a role, told me I will be hit on at my new job he can guarantee it. Can't convince him enough that I have learned a very important lesson and refuse to repeat history. Strictly work at work, I can be friendly but that is as far as it goes. Don't want to be perceived as a b but one can't be too careful. Still haven't done the exposure thing but I am working up to it, I will do this when I am completely removed from the employment situation. Soon...very soon.

I do believe you should tell your current boss that the OM is threatening to find you. I'm not sure but that really sounds like sexual harrassment to me.

I know it is tough, but hang in there. You are doing great.

Have you talked to you husband about couple's counseling? It might be a good thing for the two of you to get into.

At the very least, you need to read His Needs Her Needs (the subtitle is how to Affair proof your marriage) ant take the EN quiz. Tell him this is the best way to keep something like this from happening again.

Take care