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KiwiJ #1630723 04/06/06 03:00 PM
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Not all, just many Kiwi

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I took this to another post because you all were about as interested in helping habiba as fly to the moon. Okay, you may criticize me all you'd like but my H theory when he read all the "crap" you've thrown my way is that you and some others who throw such hostility my way (and others) is that your not over your own pain yet. So, anyone who reads these posts where you attack and spout venom should understand that context. I'm okay with it because I understand you are still recovering

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BWWWWAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! And OUCH...I just saw this and it caused me to spew hot coffee out of my nose...NOW, I know how Dorry felt when I posted nonsense and something similar happened to her...Course, I do think that Cold Pepsi, was not as painful as HOT Coffee...Dang this coffee addiction of mine!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> Thanks for the laugh though...This IS Rich! HA HA HA HA HA!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


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FWW ~ 47 ~ Me
FBH ~ 50 ~ MrWondering
DD ~ 17
Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered

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sfjaj

I don;t post here much now. That because my FWW, who was once just as deluded and indignant as you, loves me and is working hard to get past her shame and build a great marriage with me.

Just less than two years ago I was literally suicidal. Ark and Pep invested HOURS with me holding my hand, guiding me, 2x4ing me, disagreeing with me and encouraging me. I had nothing else so I did what they said. I got my Squid back from the edge of the abyss.

Pep can be REALLY obtuse if she read some new complex book she enthuses about and wants to share it, and Ark can be pretty impenetrable in the way she presents her messages sometimes but BOTH these women are mighty, MIGHTY warriors for good in this wilderness of hurt. Their wake is AWASH with salved hurts, communicating spouses,consciously thinking people.

I suggest, sfjaj, that you stop raging against the machine , smell what you be shovelling and LISTEN to them.

If you are a FWS of good heart there will come a time when your current behaviour will embarrass you I promise you.

There, now you have a man on your list to hate too.

All blessings.


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Not all, just many Kiwi

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" many Kiwi "

is better than " many bananas "

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I know she's sure tweaked my funny bone today.

Been sitting here reading all day, and it's been quite enjoyable.

Especially the angry/bitter comments...

Way too funny. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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"most"

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Pep can be REALLY obtuse if she read some new complex book she enthuses about and wants to share it

Kiwi's on Bikes !!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

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bob..bob..

please go on..and on
I could listen to your accent all day...

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Kiwi's on Bikes !!!!


and Trolls on Trikes!

What a joint we got here.

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Pep can be REALLY obtuse if she read some new complex book she enthuses about and wants to share it

Kiwi's on Bikes !!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

Is that anything like SNAKES ON A PLANE!?

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FN


Divorced April 26 2007...

REMARRIED to a wonderful woman October 13, 2012!
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bob..bob..

please go on..and on
I could listen to your accent all day...

ARK

Agree...and Kiwi's...It's a shame that BigKahuna is out of town...I dig the "melody" of the Austrailian accent too!

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But sometimes it is just hard to tell the difference between Bobs accent, versus Kiwis accent.

Know what I mean?

and then you bring in the Texas representatives........


Married 18 years
D Day June 25, 2003
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"most"

OH OH !!!!! I like the game sentence finish...

Most people are trying to help you and you are too busy being indignant to hear.

Yes, that was sarcastic. No, I am not being mean to you.

I am, however, beginning to not care.

please try to focus on the basic principles and gain the understanding you need.

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Their wake is AWASH with salved hurts, communicating spouses,consciously thinking people.


(weeping)

Including the Wookie and me in that wake.

Thank you both for not giving up on me.
My Wookie thanks you and my children will thank you...

- Kimmy


I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten.

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58 posts today Ms. S and the day isn't over yet. WOW! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

Have you read all of the articles on this website yet? Ordered the books?


I know that you believe you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant. - Robert McCloskey
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There, now you have a man on your list to hate too.


Now Bob, don't forget about Patriot ... he's a very manly man hisownself, I'm sure there is a little man hate available for him too ... we must share the bitterness Bob ... must not be selfish and keep it all to ourselves.

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and then you bring in the Texas representatives........


Now ya just had to go and say it, didn't ya?

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...and it's a Friday...

Friday's are usually so quiet...



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LMAO you guys. Cut it out. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Ark, he doesn't sound like the Queen you know. Haven't you heard a midlands accent? (Sorry Bob just kidding with you - well I am sorry about the accent as well ha ha).

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I'd like to thank the acadamy....
my mom...

and ofcourse the little people...
especially the little obtuse people...

ARK

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