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If you are on eastern time you might find today's "Dr Phil" interesting. A woman who was the OW to her H (WS) is on Dr Phil. She says she hates her stepdaughter the child of the wife that the WH was with while he was in an A with the OW. Her mother (BS) got in a car accident.

Prior to the automobile accident with BS and daugther, the mother knew about the affair that the H was having. She (BS) told the little girl (her dad) what daddy was up to and told her that the woman daddy was with that she was evil.

Her mother was left in a vegetative state. A couple weeks later betraying daddy divorced his wife and married the OW. Oh what a heart he has.

The OW, his wife, says that she isn't sending her kids away but made him send his child away (btw she calls the child a monster) though he almost lost her in the auto accident when her liver was perforated.

Stepmother demands that she will kill his daughter if she gets her hands on his daughter again and to not let her come back into their homes based on lies and deciet. The stepmother says that the little girls depends too much on the dad even though she is only 6 and has practically lost her mother.

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It's on now on the west coast. All I can say is don't watch it if you are still angry with the WS/OP. You will stare into the face of pure evil.

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Stepmother demands that she will kill his daughter if she gets her hands on his daughter again

Regardless of the infidelity situation or this woman's title, how could anyone be as evil as to say the above about anyone, let alone an innocent 6 year old. This woman sounds like a monster.

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this woman is scary- she said that with no feelings whatsoever. What is bad is the dad chose the monster over his daughter as she was sent to live with some other family members. horrible.

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pray that somehow the little girls' MATERNAL grandparents get a hold of this child or some moral...MORAL person in the BS' family sees this and takes the WS and the OW to court.

this has been my nightmare for a long time.

my xh's affair wife last summer btw...refused...REFUSED TO TAKE MY DS TO THE HOSPITAL WHEN HE HAD A SEVERE ASTHMA ATTACK. she would not TAKE HER KIDS to the hospital waiting room as the hospital said it could take up to TWO HOURS TO BE SEEN. I rushed to my ds's side...and called my xh who was forty minutes behind me racing home from a business trip.

aren't the op wonderful?

I WILL NEVER FORGIVE THE AFFAIR WIFE FOR PLACING MY CHILD IN DANGER. I am so blessed I was able to get to his side wtihin 20 minutes. I got his nebulizer to him and his dad took him to ER.

some of the OP make me wanna hurl. But this happens alot.

my son looks JUST LIKE ME. his stepmonster, the former ow, always says in front of my ds, "i HATE women with yucky blonde hair"...my son is the only blond in the home when he visits dad...dad, dark hair...ow and her kids...dark hair.


me:37 BS; s:7; xh:38; OW:26;eloped w/OW 1 wk after D: 12/29/03. OC born 3/17/04. Happy! Blessed to be the mother of a wonderful son..great profession..Life's good!
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What was the ending? I had to go pick up a friend at work, and missed it.

I'm so glad my kids are grown, and that is ONE THING I don't have to worry about. That woman made me sick, and the WH was disgusting.

I think the little girl is better off with friends.

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I swear...my heart goes out to this child...it's times like this that I would seriously (I mean it!) consider adoption. That child needs security and stability and know...KNOW SHE IS LOVED.


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I just re read the site link. I teared up for this precious little girl.

prayer prayers prayers!

Please...let's bombard Phil's site with some help for this kid.

I wish I could adopt her.

That woman? The father? There is a special place in ****** for the both of them. The stepmonster needs a good harpooning imho...and I'd love to be the one to sink it in her evil blubber!


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the stepmonster says she only hit the child with a belt a few times...only A FEW BRUISES...
what is this world coming to?

is there any wrong or right?

or are there just excuses we make?>

our children are not trash to be discarded.

the evil of a WS and an OP can amaze me...truly amaze me.


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Dr Phil says he will call Child Protective Services today before night fall if the father doesn't agree not to bring the child around the OW and tke care of her.

However I feel that the father (Previous WS) is a prime example of a person in the fog. He acted so selfishly doing whatever he felt he had to to get with OW and please her out of trying to meet his own need to be with her in the first place.

>He put his daughter out (gave her to a friend temporarily)

>He divorced his W a couple weeks after her illness, his lack of care for his W.

>He met OW concession to put daughter out, his willingness to do anything even things that are destructive to his family, by not acting in her best interest

>He still wants a life with a woman who says she will kill his own child, his own seed, his inability to protect his seed..

>He has not been there to meet the childs need being aware that the child has lost her mother his inability to care for another, consider another.

The stepmother sounded as if she could delete this child as if she was a misspelled word on a computer.


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I read through the stuff about these "parents" posted on Dr. Phil's site. I wanted to put that couple where they can never hurt a child again.

First, the [censored] dad has an affair with that witch. Not long after, BW gets into a nasty accident. How much do you want to bet she was driving under impaired conditions? How many of we BS are just plain lucky that an major accident didn't happen to us after D-day? Both wife and daughter are seriously hurt. Next, the upstanding moral man he is, gets a divorce from his comatose wife. Mere months later, he marries the witch.

And wonders why his DD might just possibly be upset? To think a 6 year old is evil is evil in its self.

I love Dr. Phil's advice. I love the fact he told this dad that he needs to separate from the witch and protect his DD. First priority! I love the fact the DP said he'd be ethically bound to report the dad to CPS unless something changed. I don't think those jerks are going to come out of the fog anytime soon.

Ya wonder if this is the result these idiots had in mind when they volunteered for the program...

I'm never home for the program but the more I read about the programs, the more I like Dr. Phil and his advice.


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Just peachy I feel the lines are becoming confused in today's times. People seem to have an inanbility to keep the lines from being crossed.

I felt that Dr Phil should've come down on the Stephooker/stepmonster/stepanimal like a ton of bricks. He allowed this woman to repeat several times that she would kill the little girl. Not spank her or deny her food, KILL her and didn't really come down on her, the way that I really felt he should've. He asked her questions very matter of fact like. For instance, saying, while putting his hand on her arm, "You don't mean this as a figure of speeach, you mean literally what you are saying?" That was a paraphrase.

Maybe he meant this to clarify so that her a$$ could have evidence against her in court should she try something and face prosecution. I'm so glad that Dr Phil is monitoring the situation, for the sake of the little girl. The stepmother is so demanding and self centered that no one else, definitely not the father would look out for her best interest.

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grapegirl, I couldn't help but wonder that too about the accident under impaired conditions. THe thing is the little girl was close to being lost too. her liver was perforated. Seems this would've been great for Dear ole' dad since his person is totally out to lunch when it comes to the safety and care for heaven's sake of this small child. Only 6 years old. God bless her.

This story was just horrible.


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I thought they said that she was killed by a drunk driver??????

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Hey I didn't see this episode, but I'm glad that DR.Phil didn't slience her, but let her get in the fact that she as an adult(claimed that she would kill this 6 yr old child) not only on national TV, but on tape, he should hand the tape over to the proper people (Childred services), and there is a place in h*ll for people like this and they both deserve each other now all his co-workers, people in town know what a low life this couple is.

Not sure if you heard the flap over the PRIMETIME special from friday night on step parents and how they caught on tape the father beating his 16 yr old daughter much to the delight of the jealous stepmom.

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swan's song, so sad, heartbreaking the story on Primetime.


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believer, I didn't hear that part. I thought it was impaired conditions. Not sure.


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I thought they said her car was hit by a drunk driver.

Anyway, the child was only 4 when she went to live with them. I couldn't believe the OW/new wife. Also the father is a maggot.

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i just read this thread, i am speechless. This is just unbelievable, are the man and the woman really human beings?

My heart goes out to that poor little girl..


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