Banyak,

Oh the other point was changing the route to get to your destination.

You can still get there. But lets take the route where we walk down that nice little path with all the flowers and stop and smell them instead of rushing down that same old worn out path we have been down so many times.

I know the more mutually enjoyable it is the more it will happen.

This may be the key. Not saying it isn't enjoyable every time but could it be more enjoyable? If so that may be the key.

For me I have alway focused my enjoyment on hers. The more enjoyable for her the more it is for me. I always get to my destination(cause I am a guy and thats what we do!!!!) But it is more enjoyable when she has gotten to hers as well.

BS 38
FWW 35
D Day 10/03
Recovery started 11/06
3 boys 12, 8 and a new baby


When life hands you lemons make lemonade then try to find the person life hands vodka and have a party.