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AllsFair, I’m glad you’ve come partly to your senses BUT…even if the OM might eventually decide to divorce his W and leave her for you (which by the way I don’t think will ever happen) you must think long and hard before making a permanent commitment and getting involved with him again… Please read this thread and you will understand why I’m saying this.
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AllsFair - I want to add something to my previous post...
If you really want to be smart...if you really want do the right & decent thing for everyone involved...and if you want to follow a God feared life and spirit controlled life...you need to repent to God...expose to the BW and leave this man ALONE for the rest of your life (whether he and his W will divorce or not after the exposure)... In stead, go and find yourself an UNMARRIED man who will really respect & honor you and who will help you to live a God feared and spirit controlled life...the way God intended it to be for YOUR salvation...
Good luck,
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My online friend, 2BNormal and I have been TRYING not to
read much here at MB...It is just so addictive and burdens
our minds with other people's problems.
But this thread is one we are reading. EEK
A MB member emailed me this BLOG and what Allsfair said there is very very vindictive and UGLY.
Her OM seems to be a musician. (Pictures are included of him and his group and even of his daughter.)
I read about half way through, to the pictures, and then decided I didn't want to fill my mind with this trashy talk.
(It seemed REALLY REALLY WRONG to include pictures of his daughter.)
I think this entire blog is foolish and just theatrical!!
I don't read where she told his wife of the extent of the affair. (This too is WRONG since he is such a creep, being with LOTS of women.)
So if you want to read this yukky blog, I would be willing to mail the site address to you.
One good thing is it will make you see, whether a BS or a WS how WRONG it is to do this. (The Blog which includes NAMES.)
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edited to remove personal information. Please refrain from posting personal information of others.
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Thanks, Eagle.
I recommend you edit it out as per Justuss' earlier determination.
WAT Morning Dave <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Can you please email it also? Jo
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Resilient, email me and I will send it to you.
My address is in the post above yours.
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this is
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this is
voyeurism
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MY opinion
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Honestly, ItWontRainAlways, if you disapprove of the blog, then why in the world are you offering to continue the drama by passing out the URL?
Why not let this shameful drama perpetuated by an OW just DIE? For the sake of the innocent BS?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I am not sure why, ML.
Did you read it?
I guess just to share with others that were curious
like I was, what this BLOG was all about.
So are you saying that you have not read it?
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I am not sure why ML.
Did you read it?
I guess just to share with others that were curious
like I was, what this BLOG was all about.
So are you saying that you have not read it?
Mary I'm asking why you are perpetuating the drama by passing out the URL? Why not let it die? It seems a little hypocritical to harp about about bad it is - which it is - and then pass out the URL. Honestly.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Allsfair...
I find your blog and treatment of the poor man's W in this sitch horrid.
I think your motives are for one thing...FORCE YOUR MAN'S HAND TO DIVORCE AND MAKE THE WIFEY PACK HIS BAGS...
I see you handing out an ultimatum...
or else:
You Will Tell the World and Wreck his career
You Will Tell More to the Wife and Wreck his home.
You demand a divorce...
and your actions are transparent and sad.
You are using NC as a weapon to further an affair. I see thru this honey.
You want NC with him unless he is filing for a divorce...Hmmm...
Instead of saying you desire NC now and want the affair over, your verbage says that you're forcing this family to rip apart UNLESS YOUR DEMANDS ARE MET.
I am sorry. I dealt with an ow that was pregnant and got that way on purpose as a way to up the ante. My separation was stagnant. She had found out my xh attempted on several occasions (then WH)to try a brief reconciliation so she got pregnant deliberately (did same thing to xbf). And she dealt a legal ultimatum regarding my xh's oc to him with the outcome? She wanted us divorced and her to resume life in the position OF BEING ME. She wanted my life. She wanted everything.
But she got far less than she hoped for. Alas, she ain't me. They're miserable. he did marry her, she has material wealth. But it is TEMPORARY as I know of financial arrangements he made in case of their divorce...They've already separated two times in two years. Totally unhappy...and when they're alone or fighting? HE COMPARES HER TO ME.
And she's the big loser.
Please end this huge game you're playing.
It is self serving.
It is sick.
It is disgusting.
His wife is INNOCENT AND DID NOT ASK FOR THIS.
me:37 BS; s:7;
xh:38; OW:26;eloped w/OW 1 wk after D: 12/29/03. OC born 3/17/04. Happy! Blessed to be the mother of a wonderful son..great profession..Life's good!
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Well, Mel, my grandma always said:
"We learn kindness from the unkind."
So maybe by reading this BLOG, we can learn that
we do not ever want to be like this vindictive woman?
P.S. I see you HAVE read it.
P.S.S. Peachy, good post.
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I remain suspicious of this entire thing I've thought that from the time I started reading the other thread, glad I am not alone. Well I am not going to congratulate you in the least. You sound just like my H's OW who said she is going to ruin his life for what he has done. Get on with your life and let this be a lesson to you not to get involved with a married man.
You must take responsibilty for you actions. You are a homewrecker plain and simple and no matter what exposure you do to the WH that will never change what you did. Satruday you were so in love, today your not. Shows your immaturaty to a tee.
You have sinned in the eyes of God. If I were you, I would be at church everyday asking for forgiveness, instead of asking us to forgive you. If you think that we are going to sympathize with you, you can forget it. You made your bed, now lay in it. I bit harsh, but I agree 100%. Seems to me, the time to check out WH's story was some point before becoming involved with him for 7 months. Even in my mere 20's, I knew enough to stay the heck away from married men and realized that they were always looking to bag some sweet young thing and then go back home to their wife. Let us not forget that it isn't really Allsfairs job to reek vengence on this WS and in completely destroying him, his poor BW also gets the residual trash, which as far as we know, she doesn't deserve. I too think that she went from everlasting love to hatred in the blink of an eye. We should all remember that this WH never took any vow with her and she is not a betrayed woman, she is the other woman. She knew he was a liar and a cheat and she chose to let him into her life. Let's hope that she learns well from this lesson and goes on to have a better life using better judgment. Who
I am the BW,
He is the FWH
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ps...CHANGE YOUR DARN SCREENNAME...
ALL IS NOT FAIR...not when you trash talk the man you supposedly love and dish out verbal venom in the form of an ultimatum designed to bring about a divorce.
I'd suggest for you something like DIGGIN4GOLD?
me:37 BS; s:7;
xh:38; OW:26;eloped w/OW 1 wk after D: 12/29/03. OC born 3/17/04. Happy! Blessed to be the mother of a wonderful son..great profession..Life's good!
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Well, Mel, my grandma always said:
"We learn kindness from the unkind."
So maybe by reading this BLOG, we can learn that
we do not ever want to be like this vindictive woman? Sounds like a very poor rationalization for voyeurism and drama, Mary. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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MelodyLane... If you are going to pounce all over IWRA...then pounce all over everyone else on this thread that posted the URL right on this thread. It was posted just this morning by Eagle. It seems as if you like to continue the drama ML. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />
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I am hoping this thread gets locked soon!
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MelodyLane... If you are going to pounce all over IWRA...then pounce all over everyone else on this thread that posted the URL right on this thread. It was posted just this morning by Eagle. It seems as if you like to continue the drama ML. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" /> More rationalizations; your specialty. Why not let it drop and stop perpetuating the DRAMA and the VOYEURISM? Especially if you are going to tsk tsk the whole blog, as did Itwontrainalways. It is very hypocritical to condemn the blog - which should be condemned - and then proceed to pass out front row tickets and fan the flames. Show a little decency, folks.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I am hoping this thread gets locked soon!
Pep Agree, especially since we have jackals passing out front row tickets to this train wreck. Let's all slobber over someone elses grief! How entertaining! ugh!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I am hoping this thread gets locked soon!
Pep Agree, especially since we have jackals passing out front row tickets to this train wreck. Let's all slobber over someone elses grief! How entertaining! ugh! Name calling...MelodyLane's "specialty"! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />
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Ummm, Melody Lane.
WHY DID YOU READ THIS BLOG?
P.S. I am not a 'jackal'.
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