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soulwindow...
NOW is the time to establish very very clear boundaries..
NOW is the time to plant seeds of doubt without emotional chaos...but in clear decisive FACTS about his actions...
you MUST seek legal advice and then legal ACTIONS about banning ALL contact between your son and dads GIRLFRIEND...
you MUST NOT entertain any part of his fantasy that you can all be friends....
the path he is choosing is of great consequence and chaos to your son...
the lessons he is planning on teaching your son are of grave damage...
you must legally block all contact between son and OW
you must EXPOSE affair to family members and gather those close to you that will PROTECT your son from chaos...
mom's (PARENTS) ARE NOT replacable based on selfish whims of adults....
and you must not condone any of this....
darling you realize that you are choosing a path that makes you a visitor to your son...
that you are choosing a path that causes great chaos in our sons life...
he can not understand your actions based on his developemental age and he will only view you as choosing someone else over him...
he will learn from his dad that moms are replacable...
when we have children we deal with soooo much crap that is out of control...we we the adults visit this crap upon our children.....out of choice....we leave great pain in our wake...
our son will believe that if he does not please you as mommy does not please you right now...he will be replaced...
who is this OW
is she married
does she have children
are they planning children...
you have a lot of work to do in which to focus your energy....
ARK
Last edited by ark^^; 06/06/06 07:54 AM.
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I'm hoping you are sooo busy exposing this that you haven't had time to post.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
ark
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