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Re: *** dooms day v.2 - EXPOSURE TO HER FAMILY ***
completelylost #1664992 05/28/06 04:49 PM
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CL, how long do you see this going on before you put in a nice, dark Plan B? Your resentment and frustration are rising fast and it seems to me to be about time you started planning one. In preparation for that, perhaps it's time to get out of that one remaining joint account? Take your share, according to the percentage you contributed to the balance, and let her have the rest.

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Re: *** dooms day v.2 - EXPOSURE TO HER FAMILY ***
Longhorn #1664993 05/28/06 08:33 PM
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the qick deed should arrive on my desk on tuesday...i wasn't sure of the order i should go in with the deeed and plan b...i want her to sign off on it and then i want to go to plan b. i have started my letter...it is tough to write this eh?

when does the hurt stop?

fil is gone now...now she is being cordial and considerate - she is not showing anger anymore.
Re: *** dooms day v.2 - EXPOSURE TO HER FAMILY ***
completelylost #1664994 05/28/06 08:35 PM
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oh yeah...and when does the exhaustion go away???
Re: *** dooms day v.2 - EXPOSURE TO HER FAMILY ***
completelylost #1664995 05/28/06 09:09 PM
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I don't have a good handle on what the deed is for, CL. Are you two selling your home or what? Just a comment: I doubt you can expect any cooperation from a WS in the first stage of Plan B.

She's not upset any longer because she's back in her comfortable place. You already know about the adultery and she's used to you not approving of what she's doing. With the stressful encounter with someone new who expressed disapproval over, she's all happy again. Wonder where OM is this weekend. I wonder if he had to do something with his family?

The pain and exhaustion go away when you draw the cloak of Plan B over you and the constant bombardment of pain and disrespect can't be felt anymore.

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