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CO - thanks for heeding the call. Sorry - when I wrote "co" I meant "company". Mr Wondering and Company.

I think I've got it figured out. Injunction against harrassment has been issued by the judge. Contacting a process server today.

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LA - I'm going to move this over to recovery.

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MDC,

Oh, don't I feel stupid <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />! I guess I will go back on the "I am not stupid" thread and withdraw my name <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />!

Well, good luck to you! I hope it all works out.

--Sarah


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Ex-FWH (iamsosorry) 32
Married 1997
DD, 10; DD, 6
A - PA 10/8/05 - 11/23/05?? - will never know the whole truth!!
ILYBNILWY speech - 11/10/05 - the day before my Birthday.....Happy Birthday to me!
D-Day - 11/23/05 - Happy Thanksgiving to me!
D-Day 2 - 4/10/06 - Happy Easter to me! (First time I found out it wasn't a ONS as he's been telling us all)
Divorced - finalized 7/07
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No worries, CO. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Thank you for the well wishes.

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Injunction against harrassment served to OM on Tuesday this week. Just received an affdavit confirming. Glad to have some formal protection in place against this wacko.

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good job,

Be prepared for some resistence. OM's don't like to be told what to do. He likely has false pride and will try to do something within a perceived gray area of the law.

Phones ringing all hours of night but no one is there. Answer them and then hang up so just maybe the call will register on HIS phone bill or with the phone company. Take the phone off the hook thereafter.

He may try to just "accidentally" bump into you or your wife in public or your workplace. Be observant of those following you. Stop suddenly for a pitstop. Circle the block. Have your cell phone camera at the ready at all times with date and signature stamp set to the correct time/date. If you have a recorder, keep it handy for when you answer the phone or out in public.

He may try to make some claim YOU stalked him and said something upon which HE can file a claim of harrasment or restraining order versus you. If you have a recording proving that at the time specified you did NOT say such...you win.

Be prepared. Forewarned is being forearmed.

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MDC and your support group,

I am glad to read of the positive, swift and legal action being taken in your defense.

There has been a lot of time spent on another thread that has a lot of other MBers all riled up. But I am glad to see support is being given to you here by some great peoples. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

All the best in this legal quest. Will be watching more closely. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

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Thanks Mr. W for the heads up.

Orchid thanks for the support.

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Bumping for MDC...wondering about you.

Maybe the Wonderings are wondering, too? They might...they ARE a wonder...and wonderful.

(I"m baiting MrsW with puns.)

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LA...you are one Master Baiter

You hooked in Mr. W with your buns, I mean Puns.

Hope all is well MDC

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Giving this another kick up because MrW cast one waaaay out there.

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MDC? You 'round? Or square?

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Miss ya, MDC...updates welcome.

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Thinking of you and hoping to get a holiday connection...an update...a hello...

LA

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