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I didn't mean to be rude.
I just got angry.
blind ((((blindsided)))) I know that you didn't sweetie...Emotions run high around here for good reason...Mr. W and I say prayers for all here every night...This is a very tough and painful road...It kills me that I put my sweet husband through this kind of pain...The wayward suffers too...those that do and don't turn around alike...For those that don't, continued selfishness leads to misery...what I want you and catgirl and any other betrayed that reads this to know is that this is NOT about you but about the issues of the wayward...please believe that, because it is VERY TRUE...Here's a hug for you too ((((catgirl))) Mrs. W
FWW ~ 47 ~ MeFBH ~ 50 ~ MrWonderingDD ~ 17 Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered
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thank you again. I have IC this afternoon and that will help as well.
I am hoping next week he will come with me. Before he left he said that he would I hope that doesn't change. we will see.
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BS (me) 36
WS 36
no kids
together 17 yrs
not married
D day 4/1/06
He was out of the house 5/10-6/5
NC as of 7/2/06
my story
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Mrs. W,
Thanks for the hug. I could use it right now.
I keep praying that he'll see what he's doing to his family and wup, but no one seems to be listening to my prayers at the moment.
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but no one seems to be listening to my prayers at the moment. That's not true catgirl...HE is listening...HE knows just what you need-much better than anyone here does, or even you yourself do...Make sure you are listening to HIM... Mrs. W
FWW ~ 47 ~ MeFBH ~ 50 ~ MrWonderingDD ~ 17 Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered
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Yeah I guess it's not what I want to hear though, like bring my husband back so we can have a family.
Guess he has other plans for mr, but I just have a hard time figuring out why. How can he let my WH walk away from his kids?
I go to church every week, pray everyday, I'm not a bad person, yet this sh** always seems to happen to me. Yeah O.K. I'm feeling reallly sorry for myself right now, but I'm getting discouraged in that WH never goes to church or prays and he's happy! He has what he wants!
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Well if it makes you feel better I just got back from IC and they sent me from the therapist to the psychiatrist.
He has seen about 20,000 patients in his career and married or not he says it is the worst case of lying and betrayal he has ever seen.
Needless to say I am now on AD's.
and of course they all told me to tss his stuff to the curb and wait for a knock on my door in about 6 months when his fog finally clears. And yes they too used the word fog!
Blind
BS (me) 36
WS 36
no kids
together 17 yrs
not married
D day 4/1/06
He was out of the house 5/10-6/5
NC as of 7/2/06
my story
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