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Yep Ima, I did...Here's the "dirt"-LOL <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />...

When I first registered, my name was WWWondering...As in "Wayward Wife Wondering"...because at the time, that's exactly what was going on...I was "wondering" if I could regain feelings for Mr. W-Gosh, that sounds strange now...

Anyway, as time passed Mr. W decided that he wanted to post...and he did a few times under the WWWondering name, but that hardly seemed fitting, ya know? So we changed it to The_Wonderings and then we just signed Mr. or Mrs. depending on who was posting...I have no idea why he didn't just register separately...I think he thought it would be too much trouble or something...I dunno...

Anyway, one day while he was at work and I was at home he ended up losing a really long post because I came on and logged in...We didn't realize that you couldn't use the same user name simultaneously...Well, DUH!

So the natural progression from The_Wonderings was, of course, Mr. & Mrs. Wondering...The wondering part still fits, as we are both always wondering about something or another, and realize that we learn something new around here almost daily...

So, to make a short story long, there it is, in a GIANT nutshell...LOL! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. W


FWW ~ 47 ~ Me
FBH ~ 50 ~ MrWondering
DD ~ 17
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So I hear you saying "Giant Nut"...

and I concur.

:::ducking:::

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I just changed my screen name recently. When I started here I was 42 and very confused>>>>confused42, sometimes referred to as c42.

Around the time I went to plan B I changed my screen name to a childhood nickname I had. 1)I am no longer 42 & confused. 2) I am feeling like the me I used to be 3)I am starting a new phase in my personal recovery 4)WH knew my confused 42 screen name

The name I chose is ChaCha>>>When I was little I had a "Chatty Kathy" doll....I called her Cha Cha some how my family started calling me that. Maybe cause I'm a chatty Kathy too.


aka-confused42
BS-45 me
WH-42
DS-14 & DD-12
together 21 yrs, married 18.5yrs
"I love you but not IN love with you" speech 6/3/04
D-Day 2/25/05; WH moved out 3/15/05 & back too soon 3/22/05...He left again 5/8/06
5/25/06 Plan B.....NC letter 6/18/06
Recovery finally began Jan 2007
We are IN love again!!!Sept 2007
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So I hear you saying "Giant Nut"...

and I concur.

:::ducking:::

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

LA

1. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Well then, take the cotton outta your ears and put it in your mouth! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

2. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> Takes one to know one <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

3. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> I know you are, but what am I? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />

4. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> I'm rubber and you're glue, whatever you say bounces off me and sticks to you! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

5. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> Finally, "The Piece de Resistance"...TAG, YOU'RE IT!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. W<------Having An Inner Child Tantrum

P.S. I challenge you to a rousting game of "Rock, Paper, Scissors"...I so rock at that game (crud, I fear that I may have given away my stategy in saying this)-a lot of skill involved with that game...<snicker> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> If you win(NO WAY), I'll teach you how to sing the "Comet Song"...Perhaps you already know it...It starts with "Comet, it makes your mouth turn green..." <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

P.P.S. Have you had your "cootie shot" this year? Just in case, repeat after me..."Circle, circle, dot, dot, dot...Now I have my cootie shot"! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />


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DD ~ 17
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Mrs W your maturity and command of the English language is nothing short of awe inspiring.

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

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Mrs W your maturity and command of the English language is nothing short of awe inspiring.

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Wow, I had no idea that my razor sharp wit and shining intellect were that obvious here...who knew? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. W <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />


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The best comebacks I've ever seen on MB.

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"Good ole ROCK, nothin' beats ROCK...doh!!!" -Bart Simpson

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How funny,

I had missed seeing Ark Posts, and was one of my favorites, I now know where she went.

Hi Old friend Ark aka Pep!!!

k.d.'s Heartbreak


In the end, I have nothing to lose but everything to gain, by trying to save my marriage.

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28 years of marriage
DD 26, DS 24
O/W aka, Rat 29, A-D Assisted Living
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"Good ole ROCK, nothing beats ROCK...doh!!!" -Bart Simpson

Thanks Honey, now LA is really gonna be privy to my fool proof stratedgy...grrr...

Oh, and I corrected your spelling within your quote-I didn't figure UVA would be reading this thread and able to do it for ya...LOL...YER WELCOME!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. W <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />


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Ooops,

I just found two recent posts with one from Pep and one from Ark, so I was wrong, Pep is an entirely differnt person from Ark.

I should have remembered that.......... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />


In the end, I have nothing to lose but everything to gain, by trying to save my marriage.

Me, betrayed wife 46
Former Wandering Husband, 51 E/A 2005
28 years of marriage
DD 26, DS 24
O/W aka, Rat 29, A-D Assisted Living
Discovery 8-20-05 Recovery ongoing.
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Ooops,

I just found two recent posts with one from Pep and one from Ark, so I was wrong, Pep is an entirely differnt person from Ark.

I should have remembered that.......... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />


LMAO...kd, You do realize that you typed that outloud, right? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. W <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />


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Yuup, I am known for that in Real life too!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />


In the end, I have nothing to lose but everything to gain, by trying to save my marriage.

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28 years of marriage
DD 26, DS 24
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<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />ME TOO!!!<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. W <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />


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Bumping for that "bully" LovingAnyway...LOL <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


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Ok, here it is again...now, maybe our multiple personalities can all come clean. Just for the record, when I posted this, I was Imanotherone. Now, I'm stonecold.

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Hmm...ok...color me confused...is Pep really Ark? Inquiring minds want to know <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Or should that be is Ark really Pep?

Anyway, I was brokenbird, and now that forward progress is being made on multiple fronts, I'm healingbird....brokenbird was becoming such a negative image <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

And in light of the other thread, no, I've never had conversations with myself using both screen names. I do, frequently, have conversations with myself in my head, but that's another story <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />


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BH (Me) - 38
WW (Magpie) - 31
Married 2001 (Together 8 years)
DS - 13
DD - 5
EA/PA - 9/05-12/05
D-Day - 11/05

Second separation. Working on me.

If you remain in Me and My words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be given to you.
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Healing--

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

"And in light of the other thread, no, I've never had conversations with myself using both screen names. I do, frequently, have conversations with myself in my head, but that's another story "

My daughter just asked me what was so funny...I truly laughed out loud when I read that. I've never logged on as Imanotherone and talked back to Stonecold YET. But things could change.....


Pep/Ark...confess and be forgiven!!!

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I was JofHJK many moons ago. I stopped being a sub-unit of the Borg Collective (H = my ex, K = her new husband) somewhere along the way, hence the switch to Just J.

It's good to have free will again.

Oh, and for all the name-changers out there. You don't have to re-register to change the name people see. You can just change your profile. I still have the same login (JofHJK) as I did three years ago.

As for the rest of this "no really, this person is actually that person roleplaying that they're this other person stuff"? Uhmmmmm. For people who like that stuff, go play here:

<a href="telnet://pern.mccr.org:4201" target="_blank">telnet://pern.mccr.org:4201</a>

And read about it here and here:

http://www.pern.org/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/MUSH

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Sunny Day, Sweeping The Clouds Away...

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I have never had an alias.

You've heard of car jacking and thread jacking.

Ask Resilient about "bed jacking".

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