we HAVE been doing that... offering an ear and support. <P>I'm sorry if you have felt anything but welcome here.<P>We had some incidents with another poster who wrote a lot like you do, so we're a bit nervous. <P>I hope that you've really thought about your situation. It's a bad one and you need to be someplace safe...<P>Lori wrote a great response...<BR>Keep us posted...<P>------------------<BR>~Sheryl<P>Marriage: the most important contract you'll ever enter into, and the most sacred.<P>