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Hi Rach
I am a FWWabout 9 mths into recovery, My wonderful H Is bigkahuna. We have been in almost the exact same situation as you. I had an A with my nextdoor neighbour and his son and our youngest were best friends, like brothers. I know EXACTLY the pain & everything else you are feeling right now amd still do to some extent. PLEASE listen to the great advice you ahve been give here by Dorry, Just Learning etc. You WILL get thru this. Read the stuff on MB re how affairs begin, it will be like looking in a mirror, trust me. Get your H onto MB as there are many people who can help him here...The whol MB thing saved my H's sanity and I truly do not know where we would be without MB. Our dear pastor did not know how to handle our situation.
Be prepared that you more than likely will have to move to another area. It truly is a tragedy for the children, the innocent ones. It breaks my heart....We had to move out of our home for 4 months when my A ended. Cost thousands of dollars. OM & his family sold and moved about 10 km away, but I have had to make changes to my life that I was quite angry about at first but am at peace now..OM shopped at same shopping centre etc. There are still times when I would like to move to totally remove ANY chance of me seeing him. I looked over my shoulder for a long time and still do sometimes.....Sorry I am ranting a bit now....But Rach you need to see that there are some things that you have to do to save your marriage and your family and they will be painful, and it is unfair etc...
If you and your H have decided you want to work on your marriage to make it the best it can be, you will get thru this (as in NOT over!!)
much love & prayers
MKH
H is 46, me 45, 3 DS 17,15,13, married 23 1/2 yrs
Last edited by mrskahuna; 07/05/06 06:59 AM.
Me FWW 45
H BS 46
Married 24 yrs
3 sons 13,15,17
EA/PA
D-Day Aug 2005
RECOVERED.....YAY!!!
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Rach
Glad to see you are back, just bumping this thread for you
MKH
Me FWW 45
H BS 46
Married 24 yrs
3 sons 13,15,17
EA/PA
D-Day Aug 2005
RECOVERED.....YAY!!!
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Anyone know how to delte a profile & the threads you made ?
Please !!!!
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Anyone know how to delte a profile & the threads you made ?
Please !!!! You've put your sitch out there on the internet by posting on this site. Years later, you're asking to delete those posts. Why?
D-Day 2-10-2009
Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever!
Thank you Marriage Builders!
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Anyone know how to delte a profile & the threads you made ?
Please !!!! From 2006 I would think that if you wanted this thread forgotten/hidden, you ought not have resurrected it from 6 years past !!! I'm happy to "bump" this thread up if that's your desire. 
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From the "Announcements" forum ......... We quite often receive requests from members to "remove all my posts or threads." Our policy is not to remove threads unless there is a real imminent threat. Removing entire threads is not fair to the posters who took the time to post to your thread. Even if it no longer applies to your situation, other readers may be able to benefit from the advice & suggestions given. We take these requests very seriously and will avoid doing this unless there are extreme circumstances.
You may edit YOUR posts within a specific time frame and/or change your screen name. If you are unable to edit a SPECFIC post due to time limits, we can help you. Or if you need something edited because of a quote by another poster, we can help. If you feel that your posts might be a threat to you in the future, we would suggest that you use caution when posting rather than asking the mods to remove your thread. The discussion boards are anonymous so PLEASE do not post info that will ID you.
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So ....... if there is "a real imminent threat" then you click on the "notify" button and explain to the mods how/why a 6 year old thread poses an immediate threat to yourself.
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