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Hey, L2S. I just e-mailed you those pics. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
Hope you're having a good day!
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Sunday came and the usual VMs about me going to church. Sunday evening he called and asked me to come over so we could talk.
Admitted that out of spite (or desire) he took OW and her parents out to eat Saturday evening and Sunday lunch. Said it's clear that I don't want him and that I am interested in guy at church.
Asked me again if we could work on M and try to put it back together. But, no talk about how to make that happen. Admitted that he is still in daily contact w/OW and XW and has been. Still won't admit to two other As that were either As or him trying to act "big" around the guys.
Because I said "no" he is going away to visit D. Said he's hurt a lot of people and he needs to go make it right with everyone. Talking about leaving town (not in so many words but just dropping hints). Making comments like:
"If I died would you have an open casket service"? "If you had to know how much one of the vehicles was worth would you know how to find out the value? Car lots can do appraisals". Talking about fixing the house up and selling it but he just refinanced it in July to get the $ to pay me.
This is like the calm before the storm. Makes me wonder what is up. He says there's no one else. He loves me. He will always love me but he can't stay here without me because there's nothing left for him without me.
Said he wants to get papers signed before he leaves. When I asked why he said it would be more beneficial for me.
This is typical of him to talk like this. Everything seems to be a game. He won't just say what he's planning to do, he just hints at things. He'll make little comments about leaving and what I need to know and do about the company. Not sure when he's leaving, not sure when he's coming back. Has to go to two places to make things right.
Oh well, just an update.
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