Make a PLAN

and "hope" is not a method when it comes to improving your situation

YOU need a plan

Pep

Do you mean as in actually drawing up and executing Plan A? Does that refer to the carrot and stick post? Basically I already am. Ever since that night, I basically have implimented Plan A, just no date set on it.

Is that what you mean?

Have you snooped & investigated until you have all the information you require?

have you read SAA?

see it here

Well, I do admit that I have my suspicions, and conversations I have had with both my friends, and what I read here have said that I am not paranoid to come to the conclusions I have. I just have a problem with the fact that I keep coming up with nothing every turn.

I have quietly drawn my own line in the sand. As little as she goes out, the next time her and her girlfriend go out, I will be tailing her to either catch her with him, or confirm her story. I have tried to trust her, but the lies I have caught her in, have dwindled my trust down to the bare minimum.

In the lack of any further evidence, other than what I've stated in post one, where is the line between I suspect and I know. Most stories here involve when the WS confirm the A. How do I act on an A that may not actually exist? I am trying to approach this logically. My gut smells a rat, but in the search, I can find little evidence that a rat is actually there, just traces that a rat may have been there, becuase there has been almost no activity since this happened almost three weeks ago.