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Because he is her boss, and I'm sure she is having to miss work to go have this mammogram done. My husband is a very caring and compassionate individual, so I'm sure he asked her if everything was all right and she told him out of pure concern. I trust my husband, and I trust there is nothing going on with them.
However, what about this. I was just doing some praying and thinking....and this is purely speculation, which I know can get you in trouble....but what if my H does have feelings for my her, but he hasn't acted on anything. He just has the feelings. Maybe he wants to tell me this because he doesn't have feelings for me anymore but he does have feelings for her, but he's afraid that I will use this info as ammo to rip him to shreds, and then maybe D him. So maybe he wants to get the jump start on it, or maybe he knows that he just can't take a beating anymore so he just is seriously thinking about D? Hmmm....that would kinda explain some of the back and forth with his feelings, but I don't know. Like I said before I'm just speculating, which I know isn't nessarely a good thing to do.
Was trying to sleep and that popped into my head while I was praying, so I wanted to write it down and tell somebody.
Words of Faith from Abbie
"But these things I plan won't happen right away. Slowly, steadily, surely, the time approaches when the vision will be fullfilled. If it seems slow, do not despair, for these things will surely come to pass. Just be patient! They will not be overdue a single day!" Habakkuk 2:3 (TLB)
"If I have faith like a grain of mustard seed, I can say to this mountain, Move from here to yonder place, and it will move; and nothing will be impossible to me." Matthew 17:20
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From an outsider's perspective it sounds like this.....
1. treat the W like an old rag 2. give other women time and attention.
He's a KISA (knight in shining armor). Not good for a M.
Let him know his attention to other women is quite disrespectful. Watch his reaction. He defends it and he has marked him self guilty.
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Post continued in Emotional Issues Room under same title.
Words of Faith from Abbie
"But these things I plan won't happen right away. Slowly, steadily, surely, the time approaches when the vision will be fullfilled. If it seems slow, do not despair, for these things will surely come to pass. Just be patient! They will not be overdue a single day!" Habakkuk 2:3 (TLB)
"If I have faith like a grain of mustard seed, I can say to this mountain, Move from here to yonder place, and it will move; and nothing will be impossible to me." Matthew 17:20
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I'm sorry it's been moved to the Emotional Needs forum.
Words of Faith from Abbie
"But these things I plan won't happen right away. Slowly, steadily, surely, the time approaches when the vision will be fullfilled. If it seems slow, do not despair, for these things will surely come to pass. Just be patient! They will not be overdue a single day!" Habakkuk 2:3 (TLB)
"If I have faith like a grain of mustard seed, I can say to this mountain, Move from here to yonder place, and it will move; and nothing will be impossible to me." Matthew 17:20
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