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Hey thanks for filling everyone in Fighting!
Sorry I've been so absent. Although life is so much better without WW around, I am very busy!
Thanks for the kudo's! I've just realized that I am far better off without that woman, and am no longer going to put up with anything I don't want to!
Me/BS = 28
WW =33
DD = 5
Found out about EA/PA = 4/07/06
WW moved to Virginia to be with OM = 8/21/06
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Where can I buy a G_F fan club tee shirt ? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Sir, you are truly a knight, not a serf. I dub thee "Sir GoodFather"
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It just sickens me that a mother could actually desert her 5 year old daughter this way. I can't get over it!
GF ... you are definitely living up to your name!
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<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> (((GoodFather))) <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
why do you suppose WW asked you to put off the divorce?
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
I wonder if OM knows she is trying to delay the divorce ????
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm (again)
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lol....pep.
are you *suggesting* that OM should have that information?
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Pep is very smart. If I were you, GF...I would make sure that the OM understands this.
Might create "issues" in fantasyland!
Standing in His PresenceFBS (me) (48) FWW (41) Married April 1993... 4 kids (19(B), 17(G), 14(B), 4(B)) Blessed by God more than I deserve "If Jesus is your co-pilot...you need to change seats!"Link: The Roles of Husbands and Wives
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Hilarious! Good Father good to hear from you!
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I had the same thought Pep, about OM finding out...
But here is my thought process:
1. I can't to be married to her anymore.
2. Obviously she's had problems in fantasy land already, hence asking me to hold off on the D.
3. If OM finds out about #2, then there will be more problems in fantasy land.
4. If there are more problems in fantasy land, WW will continue to contact me and request that we get back together.
5. Refer to #1!
I had lunch with one of her old co-workers the other day (in fact it was the guy that got WW fired). Apparently they now have a "WW list" of all the lies she told everyone in the office to try and manipulate them.
Thanks to WW they had to have several meetings to figure out how to straighten out office finances and moral...basically to untangle the web of lies.
Also, now the accounting manager has none of the privilages that the role used to entail before WW.
Lastly, they do a complete background check on EVERYONE that they interview now. They did a background check on WW after she was fired and found some very interesting things about her...imagine this...they hired her as an accounting manager, yet she has no accounting degree...one of the many lies she's maintained for years!
I can not be married to her anymore. I will not spend the rest of my life wondering if what my spouse just told me was the truth or a lie.
Me/BS = 28
WW =33
DD = 5
Found out about EA/PA = 4/07/06
WW moved to Virginia to be with OM = 8/21/06
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I can not be married to her anymore. I will not spend the rest of my life wondering if what my spouse just told me was the truth or a lie. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> Nothing like the truth to set you free. Wow, so sorry you are still learning how badly your WW screwed up. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />
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me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
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imagine this...they hired her as an accounting manager, yet she has no accounting degree...one of the many lies she's maintained for years! I'm thinking OM may be VERY interested in that little tid bit, considering we know she has told him she's degree'd. But again, as you said, you don't want her anymore so why bother. The OM deserves whatever he gets and then some.
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One you've make the final decision to divorce no matter what ... it must be liberating in many ways
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GF, Given what you have said about YOUR thoughts on marriage to her, I say don't say a thing to OM. He deserves her, and her he. You on the other hand deserve much better. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Sometimes one does not have to wait long to see what went around coming around the bend again. Isn't it sweet?? God Bless, JL
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GF, I think JL has a point. The time has passed for anything directed at breaking up the adultery. Stay with your decision you can't be married to her any longer. I think that's the only sane, adult option you have for you and your child.
Hang in there, pardner.
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Hi GF:
I agree with the others about not working any longer 2 bust up the A.
You sound at peace, and that's a great place 2 be.
Divorcing yourself from your STBXWW's drama must also include freeing her 2 learn her own life lessons in the manner she's chosen - with another liar, the OM.
Maybe she'll come out of the A at some point a better, wiser person. But that's for her 2 do and for you 2 not worry yourself over anymore.
best,
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