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Re: page moved - New Here - WS missing Husband
213601 #1716748 07/31/06 08:26 AM
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Tony,

I'm feeling ok, Thanks for asking. I had a rough weekend very depressed - NO self med., been 2 weeks clean - I spoke with H for future "repair" on our marriage and it is not going to happen, he believes we are over. Now I must go on with some sort of outside counseling to overcome this before I resort back to other means of help. Anyone out there, who is thinking of having an A - STOP and think first, get the help before it is too late. I now have to live with what I did/created knowing that each day will be a struggle. I lost the man I love and that will never change. Thanks too all for your words and keep helping others.

NT
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NT,

What if...you had a choice of redemption in front of you...and the ultimate betrayal of yourself would be to turn away from it?

Would you want that redemption more than anything else?

LA
Re: page moved - New Here - WS missing Husband
needtime #1716750 07/31/06 08:59 AM
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NT, I'm sorry you're feeling so depressed. I'm glad you've avoided self-med, but I can assure you this will be very difficult in the future without a solid support system.

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I lost the man I love and that will never change.


You don't know that this will never change. Maybe it won't, but you can't possibly know.

The longest journey starts with a single step...

I think you're first step needs to be towards getting healthy. You have to become someone your H would want to have back.

I still think you'd do well to check into rehab. You'll get the support you need there.
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