thanks rags <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> I missed that.

Stanley... you claim there was no emotional attachment... yet your "friend" decided it was okay to slam your wife... sounds smotional to me... decided she is going to post dteails about your talks... sounds emotional to me... so, Stanley, she was emotionally involved but not you???

You really need to tell this woman to get out of your life... stand up for your wife and be a man. You have no business letting anyone speak to your wife like that... she is your partner and now you are getting this OW to do your dirty business. Shameful.

Suset:


Yes.



This is what Myrta did and I knew about it. Not in a million years did I ever consider that she was having an affair.



You want to fit your situation into mine. I saw what you wrote to OM. You were in love with that man. This is not what I wrote my Internet friend. In addition there were no hidden emotional feelings.

HOWEVER, IT WAS WRONG. There is no justification.

Stanley,
If you know it is wrong- what is your justification for allowing it to continue?

For the love of God: It ended.

What a DJ!!!!!!!!!!

oh, it ended?
then why is she writing to your wife?

Why is your wife considering allowing you to continue communicating?

If Myrta gave the go- ahead would it start back up?

Well, my husband's internet friend has written me several times already, Her latest e-mail is giving me advice how to treat my husband and better my marriage. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />.

She said I should have stayed while my husband finish his email to her while we were in Italy. That I was kind of a fool for not showing interest in their friendship since it was so important to him.

Her last e-mail got to me, because I can see how involve in conversation they were about every little detail of Stanley's and my life. Stanley told her everything!!about us. I was involve in a physical affair, and I dont think I talk to OM as much as this woman and my husband have. But its all good.....anyhow, thats finished according to them. So I should not worry <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />.

Thank to everyone for their help in our long recovery.

Myrta