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Perhaps how best to stir up dissension on a board of affair victims. I would say we are ALL guilty of that. Maybe, we are even the ones who TAUGHT her that. Speak for yourself, NOW.
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I think she's probably learning a LOT more this way. I don't know if she is learning or not...I will say that it is not lost on me that she was brought back here after she left of her own accord by the IWRA/Sarie/BlessedTime et al PRO AFFAIR AGENDA TROLL...Someone who just LOVED to stir up trouble and now Jilly's doing the same all in the name of something VERY pro affair...Hmmm... What a co-inky-dink! Mrs. W P.S. Jilly when I read your post regarding your first marriage, it evoked sympathy for your BS ONLY! How very much that man needed his God given WIFE...SAD...
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ARGHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The form you have submitted is no longer valid. Bob: Thank you. I don't have the heart to say again what was lost except: 1. I was devastated over what LA said. I decided at the time to draw her out instead of blasting her. I was kindler and gentler back then. I ain't as much any more. 2. I deal with that garbage POV now by saying: Affairs, the gift that keeps on giving. Then I go on to detail some issue that crops up, sometimes years later. So I use sarcasm. Only way I can deal with the garbage LA laid on me. 3. I still am optimistic. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> The glass is half full and all that. My wife and I are a better but not perfect team than we have ever been. I love my wife, I love my life and I love my kids, even the 12 year old nutty as a fruit cake entitled oldest boy. 4. Hole still there. Not as large. I get sad sometimes and my wife picks up on it IMMEDIATELY - then does whatever she can to brighten my day. She owns her own stuff. Life goes on. And again, thanks Bob. I had been trying to locate that thread of late to review it and couldn't find it, so your post was timely. How do you keep up with or find old posts like that? I can't get past 250 posts. Larry
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Ok....I am used to taking responsibility for my actions.
Would you like me to stop?
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Mrs. W., I don't know if any of that is true or not...but aren't you playing right into her hands, if that IS the case?
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Mrs. W., I don't know if any of that is true or not...but aren't you playing right into her hands, if that IS the case? I can assure you NOW, it IS the case...IWRA emailed Jilly quotes from another thread and baited her to come back...She started a thread called something like "The treatment of JustJilly on Marriage Builders"...and it blew from there... NOW, I will not just sit back and shut up when I see something very cruel being done...If there is someone here promoting a Pro Affair Agenda, why would I not wish to stand up against that? Mrs. W
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I don't have the benefit of extra information from outside sources.
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So there is more to this than just that you don't agree that her marriage is legitimate?
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Ok....I am used to taking responsibility for my actions. What ARE you talking about, NOW? How is it "responsible" to complain that others are trying to shut down Jilly when you are doing that very thing to her objectors? Do you really not see how contradictory that is? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />
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Complaining? I'm just trying to get you to see that it goes both ways! How do you not see that?
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P.S. Who are her objectors? Are you?
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So there is more to this than just that you don't agree that her marriage is legitimate? NOW, as I've stated before, I really am not worried about the Christian legitmacy of her marriage...That is not for me to decide-though I have my thoughts on it...What I DO see is that the marriage that she is currently in is the WORST nightmare of many here...There is no reason that it should be shoved down their throats... The solution? Jilly takes herself to a quieter section of the board...She gets the help she seems to want and the vunerable here are protected...Seems pretty win/win to me, wouldn't you agree? Mrs. W
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Complaining? I'm just trying to get you to see that it goes both ways! How do you not see that? OMG.. why not quit while you are behind? I am not the one complaining, you are... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />
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you'd like that, wouldn't you! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
(are you complaining about me?) LOL!
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Oh dear, this is getting embarrassing. NOW, do you not remember your own posts in the last hour on this subject? It sounds like you won't stop objecting until she stops posting here. Is that accurate?
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Oh please don't be embarrassed...I'm not.
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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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The solution? Jilly takes herself to a quieter section of the board...She gets the help she seems to want and the vunerable here are protected...Seems pretty win/win to me, wouldn't you agree? Yes, but it isn't happening....which is my point....you can't make her do that, any more than I can make any one stop trying to make her!
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ML, I happen to agree with you on this point....if she truly wanted help, she would go elsewhere. The ONLY reason, if I were in her shoes, that I would remain, is to prove that I had a right to be here. Not exactly my priority, if my husband had been cheating on me.
I would definitely let the objectors win this battle.
But, whatever.
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