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Re: He's still using the other phone
LoveHimForever #1728235 08/11/06 02:11 PM
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My reason for not contacting the OW's H yet is simple; He already knows about the affair and their is a possibility that he knows and/or suspects that my H and his W are still in touch with each other.

LovingHimForever,

What is it you think that ends an affair? Because I'll tell you right now, being passive and letting exposure opportunities pass by is a horrible decision. If you call the OW's H and let him know what's up, he will make the affair more uncomfortable for them. He will start watching her closer and making her feel more guilty for continuing this.

If you are not exposing, you are not in plan A.
Re: He's still using the other phone
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He already knows about the affair and their is a possibility that he knows and/or suspects that my H and his W are still in touch with each other.

Again, how do you know he knows?

Why not remove all doubt about what he knows?

WAT
Re: He's still using the other phone
worthatry #1728237 08/11/06 02:35 PM
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Yep, I should call.

WS 48 BS 44 DD 6 Married 22 years DDay 5-20-06
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