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(I can best describe my deceitfulness as pretending to be a fiction writer and making up things) I would NOT betray them by forwarding their emails. But you betrayed them in every other way. You are not a fiction writer, but a very deceitful, cruel, vicious individual who lies to manipulate and trick people in the pursuit of your pro-affair agenda. Just as you deceived your husband all these years, you deceived everyone else in your life. And rationalizing that you were "just a fiction writer" tells me that you are not sorry at all, but believe lying and trickery and fraud are perfectly acceptable ways to behave. You are only "sorry" that you got caught. You have some serious problems, madam. I don't know what they are, but I do know you are dangerous and very manipulative and are not a "friend" to anyone. I hope that you do get the help you need, but most of all, I hope that you leave this board alone. Three years of fraud and deceit is enough, don't you think?
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I can best describe my deceitfulness as pretending to be a fiction writer and making up things Don't quit your day job.
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Mine isn't an accusation...it's in the form of a question...or does that not compute with your self proclaimed intolerance of bad grammar.
And it looks like the other comment is preceded by IF...you do know what what means...right? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
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Committed, I apologised for that you know. I sincerely apologised and I'm sorry you missed it.
It was unforgivable behaviour on my part. I was like a cornered lion and I am very, very embarrassed by the way I behaved (all round, not just on MB).
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Committed, I apologised for that you know. I sincerely apologised and I'm sorry you missed it.
It was unforgivable behaviour on my part. I was like a cornered lion and I am very, very embarrassed by the way I behaved (all round, not just on MB). I must have missed it also, Jen. I'm not being snide, I'm being sincere. Whereabouts would that apology be?
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I think I started a thread about two months ago, asking folks to identify all of their different nicknames. I think it was around the time Pio was playing with trying to find the most alarming screenname, but he was doing it all in spanish, so I didn't know what it was until he translated it for me. Wasn't it traica somethingorother? [quote] traicionado = betrayed piojitos = little tiny peeps - like baby chicks ANd don't worry about me having double identities. I started out doing one post way back in the day as Venus I think, but now I'm always Belle. No double personality. Barely a single one. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />
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wow....what a complete drag......very creepy. I don't like lies and I don't like duplicity. But you know folks, while this is nasty.....it doesn't upset me any more than knowing there's private board out there where the goings on of this board are discussed between a select group. It's all complete crappola.....two-faced....bleah. Glad I'm on vacation......might extend....*ewwwwwwwwww*
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Committed, I apologised for that you know. I sincerely apologised and I'm sorry you missed it.
I did miss it. Was the apology directed to MB in general, or to anyone in particular? That might be why I missed it because I haven't looked at many other threads.
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that does it
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give the crack pipe back to Orchid!
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IWRA, I think that, first thing tomorrow morning, you should go to your doctor and get a referral to a good psychiatrist. Also, I think you should confess to your H, not only about any affairs you may have had, but also about your actions here. The man needs to know exactly WHO his wife is. If you are who I think you are (and who knows? You could have plucked your identities right out of the phone directory!), you are probably closer to 66 instead of 60. And, yeah, I could tell from your posts that you were older than any 50. I think you have way too much time on your hands. Why not create some excitement (the good kind) with your H instead of here? Your posts were always soooo concerned with the pain of the WS. While I'm sure that a WS must be in pain...and MORE SO if he/she is remorseful about hurting the BS, it is NOTHING compared to the pain of a BS with an unremorseful WS. Your posts were nothing more than telling the BS to kiss the WS' @$$ and put up with the cheating. So, if you were having an affair, you need to tell your H. No ifs, ands, or buts. Earlier in this thread, you posted your reason for posting as "BlessedTime": I had seen how much respect a betrayed spouse received, versus a WS and especially a wondering spouse that wasn't anyways near recovered. So, you wanted respect from US...a group of total strangers? Do you not understand that we must EARN respect from others...that respect is not based on who you PRETEND to be, but the kind of person you ARE? The kind of person you ARE is based on your actions.
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wow....what a complete drag......very creepy. I don't like lies and I don't like duplicity. But you know folks, while this is nasty.....it doesn't upset me any more than knowing there's private board out there where the goings on of this board are discussed between a select group. It's all complete crappola.....two-faced....bleah. Glad I'm on vacation......might extend....*ewwwwwwwwww* oh please. That is silly to equate lies and deceit with a private board. Quite a stretch there, starfish. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
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that does it
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give the crack pipe back to Orchid! lol!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Yeah, I think that was after Pep wrote some place that she was Ark and Ark was Pep. That was me. I've been here as long as God. I confess. I am Pep and I am Ark. And somedays I'm Just Learnig and somedays I'm Mimi. That is all, I think. I'm sorry. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
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I will do a search for my apology. I apologised to Patriot and to Committed. Actually, I think I said "to the two people I offended."
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an I ain't putting my clothes back on 'till EVERY last one of ya's APOLOGIZE to me!
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an I ain't putting my clothes back on 'till EVERY last one of ya's APOLOGIZE to me!
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Pep Godless heathen! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
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I remain nekkid... and Susan look at MY MY SPACE !
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.it doesn't upset me any more than knowing there's private board out there where the goings on of this board are discussed between a select group.
Lord...you are going to have to let that go girl.
You know that is more than likely what happens when people meet for "MB get togethers" too. More than likely the topic of discussion is going to be the people on MB...and that's normal. You realize of course that they have the unalienable right to do that...right? No one gets to dictate the topic of discussion when people are in PRIVATE groups...except the people that are in that group.
I could care less...I think that is because I am not egotistical enough to think that I would be the topic of discussion. Besides, I am waaaaay too boring.
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Written by one of several BlessedTIME'S aliases:
I had seen how much respect a betrayed spouse received, versus a WS and especially a wondering spouse that wasn't anyways near recovered. Although this could be true, doubtful, I believe she posted as a BS so she could rally as a BS in a PRO-affair manner. Whenever possible she would place a positive spin on a WS's or OP's side of things AS A BS. She probably felt she could sway REAL BS in feeling sympathy for OPes and active WSes or get BSes to take responsibility for the affair, by playing one. JMVHO
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I will do a search for my apology. I apologised to Patriot and to Committed. Actually, I think I said "to the two people I offended.
Oh...I see. How would anyone know who that was? I certainly didn't know that it was me. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/ooo.gif" alt="" />
Anyway...onward posters...the night is still young.
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