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I will do a search for my apology. I apologised to Patriot and to Committed. Actually, I think I said "to the two people I offended.

Oh...I see. How would anyone know who that was? I certainly didn't know that it was me. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/ooo.gif" alt="" />

Anyway...onward posters...the night is still young.

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OK, but look at mine and listen to my new song.


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It looks great, but the font is so freakin' tiny, I can't read it!

You need some older friends. LOL Momma's have invaded MY SPACE!!!


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Resilient,

I think it was for validation. Alot of people on this site look for validation. It wasn't going to be forthcoming while she was a WW...so she had to assume the persona of a BS to get it.

You can see a person's true colors when they post about wanting "valid" opinions...and unless it "validates" THEM...it isn't valid. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

This isn't directed to anyone participating on this thread...I have just noticed it on the divorced and dating site...and when that same poster shows up at this forum too.

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Committed, I'll apologise again. (I've searched and I can't find it but I know it's there).

I am sincerely sorry that I was so rude to you and Patriot. I'm also sorry for my behaviour on MB at that time and my behaviour towards my H. Even searching for that post just then made me cringe as I had to go back into threads that I never want to see again (not because of what people were saying to me and about me, but because of what I was saying).

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Apology Accepted.

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Thank you.

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Resilient,

I think it was for validation. Alot of people on this site look for validation. It wasn't going to be forthcoming while she was a WW...so she had to assume the persona of a BS to get it.

You can see a person's true colors when they post about wanting "valid" opinions...and unless it "validates" THEM...it isn't valid. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

This isn't directed to anyone participating on this thread...I have just noticed it on the divorced and dating site...and when that same poster shows up at this forum too.

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I can see that happening, perhaps initially when she signed up. But it morphed, and if you go read BlessedTIME's 3+ years of posts she typically sides with WSes and is very hard on BSes. Go read.

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It looks great, but the font is so freakin' tiny, I can't read it!

I can't read it either!

I asked the Mouse to help me with it ... she's at work right now & tomorrow she's going to Disneyland with her boyfriend ... so I will fix the teensy tiny print to a more readable size ... soon!

The kids are FREAKED their MOM is on MY SPACE ... Stephanie loves me ... she calls me "mom" too!

HAHA

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Pep, if I apologise to you would you PLEASE PUT SOME CLOTHES ON.

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**snort** <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


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Pep, if I apologise to you would you PLEASE PUT SOME CLOTHES ON.

She can't Jen, she's a finalist in the "Naked Village" Championship...A game that Mr. W has long believed should be an Olympic Event...sigh...<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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Pep, if I apologise to you would you PLEASE PUT SOME CLOTHES ON.

She can't Jen, she's a finalist in the "Naked Village" Championship...A game that Mr. W has long believed should be an Olympic Event...sigh...<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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It is a wonderful rigorous Equestrian event, 3 day on horse back - bareback. Quite sporting.

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Pep, if I apologise to you would you PLEASE PUT SOME CLOTHES ON.

She can't Jen, she's a finalist in the "Naked Village" Championship...A game that Mr. W has long believed should be an Olympic Event...sigh...<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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It is a wonderful rigorous Equestrian event, 3 day on horse back - bareback. Quite sporting.

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> LMAO...OMG...I had no idea that you were into that sport! We've probably seen you there Jo!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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While this thread seems to have taken a rather humorous turn, I find Sarie, IRWA, whatever...Sybil very sad and disturbing.

What a waste of time and effort, I just wonder if Sarie...Sybil had put the creativity, the time, the focus into her marriage and her H how her/his life would have been. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

I really don't know what else to say.

God Bless,

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JL,

When I read about how you and others were duped (probably me 2), it really crushed me. It is quite a bold thing t/d to anyone especially you.

If this is a step to straigthening out and getting back to reality, I certainly hope so. If she is in her 60s it certainly is a late start but then again....better late than never.

Not the 1st time we've been duped....probably not the last. Still we survive each time and keep movin' forward. Please don't let this bump in the road of life keep you from what you do best.

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It is a wonderful rigorous Equestrian event, 3 day on horse back - bareback. Quite sporting.

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /><img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /><img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /><img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /><img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /><img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /><img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /><img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /><img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /><img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> You have NO idea how glad that makes me not to be a horse!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

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I'm coming into this late..but wasn't there an odd new poster in Stonecold's thread that was offering some, shall I say, 'off' advice? Possibly yet another identity?

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wow....what a complete drag......very creepy. I don't like lies and I don't like duplicity. But you know folks, while this is nasty.....it doesn't upset me any more than knowing there's private board out there where the goings on of this board are discussed between a select group. It's all complete crappola.....two-faced....bleah. Glad I'm on vacation......might extend....*ewwwwwwwwww*

So what exactly IS discussed in the private pages on SYMC star*fish? I too am aghast about this.


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Jilly,

IWRA also emailed me with your story when she started that stupid call out thread. She also included your feelings about MB in that email.


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