Thank you for responding. I feel like I am doing well, most days anyway.

I am basically in Plan A still. WH is still living with OW and her DS7. I want to go to Plan B but do not have visitation issues straightened out. I do not want to push this as it will push OW into DDs lives more. By staying in limbo, I am protecting my DDs from contact with OW. If I can hold off long enough, maybe she won't be an issue for them. I would really like to go to Plan B as it seems much safer for me. Every time I see or hear WH, it hurts again. The final date for D is January 31, 2007. I will go immediately into Plan B as custody will be determined by then. I have lost so much respect for WH and really don't see him making ANY effort to recover the M once the A is over.

There have been a few things between OW and WH that I have found out that are kind of interesting. Things I KNOW would bother WH if I had done them.

I have a story about his dog that is kind of funny....have to update on that later. Gotta work.