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FF,
I appologise that I didn't reply specifically to you earlier.
While it may be the case that my XW is spared some discomfort by the fact that I don't discuss the A with our child, it certainly is not a choice I make for XW's benefit. Thus, I'm not protecting her. I'm protecting my child. There will be a time for discussions with DD about this, but I'm not sure that the time is now.
Does that make sense?
-AD
A guy, 50. Divorced in 2005.
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Yes, AD but what I was talking about was the marriage to the OM. I think because of the emotional immaturity of your xW, YOU will be the one to tell your Dd. That is what I was referring to. I am glad your Dd has you.
Faith
me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
DS 30
DD 21
DS 15
OCDS 8
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