I have thought about calling the Harleys. I'm not sure my husband would go for that right now because of the expense.

We have been going to a MC that uses MB principles. Actually, at the second meeting she had us fill out an EN questionaire. (I hadn't found MB at the time), I was looking at that form the other day and it is actually from HNHN. So she is familiar with MB. I talked to her the other day and she agrees that my husband has some issues that he needs to work out before we can move forward in the marriage. We haven't gone in a couple of weeks. Now I'm just hoping he will go to IC and get the help he needs and then we will start MC again.

I'm going to see how he responds to this seperation and I may just buck up and spend the money for the Harleys. I'm really happy that he agreed to read SAA. Hopefully that will help. Up to this point, he didn't think he needed to do any work, that this was all going to work out on it's own. Or Something. I actually don't know what he's thinking!! Go figure! Those darn WS!