medic,<P>again, I do not see my replies, so I am just writting this one last time to say, I hope all three do show up.. at one point or another.. and you get to read them all...<P>AV

I made another major boo boo by calling the W at work today to see how she was doing. I was very concerned. With all the crying and begging she did on Tuesday I recanted back to discovery and remembered the severe pain of headache and stomach pain amonst other things. I would not wish this on my worst enemy.<P>She was fine. Apparently spoke to friends or family and believes the divorce that I started this week is a hoax. She gave me the holier than thou comebacks. Telling me that the OM is more important than me just to illicite a response and later admitted it.<P>At this point my teddy bear is a better companion as there is no confrontation, no bitter words, no stab you in the back till you bleed all over the carpet and die a horrible death that I can easily get an aquittal on in this screwed up world that thinks it's ok to forget your marriage vows.<P>Stop the world, I want to get off. This place sucks.<P>I REFUSE TO LIE DOWN AND TAKE THIS CRAP.<P>Medic....... ok I still wish us the best, but you guys know that.<BR>

I am not one to normally say this, but in one of your posts above, you said you've tried everything. I suppose you've tried plan B, and you feel you have done all you could with the marriage, and you are ready to end it.<P>I wish you well in your new life, and I understand the reasons behind your logic. It isn't MB principles, but if it is something that you can live with, I understand.<P>Keep us updated!

medic,<P>not sure if I understand that you did a plan B or not..I am getting my plan B ready to start next week. I'm with you that I need to protect myself, but also to put some pressure on the whole situation. I feel it will prepare me for divorce and less pain by then or it may actually wake her up some. If you have nothing to gain or lose from filing for divorce, just divorce yourself from her just not legally. Don't meet any of her needs. The holidays are coming, I am hoping they will have some effect (we have a child), can you hold onto plan B that long?