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So what happened?

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YES, WHAT HAPPENED???<P>------------------<BR>~Sheryl<P>Marriage: the most important contract you'll ever enter into, and the most sacred.<P><BR>

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If you really find it necessary to do this, be prepared for all of the ramifications that will follow. The "I'm sorrys" the "It wasn't what it seemed". Alot of pain will follow after that so be ready. Have you thought of hiring someone to go and photograph it for you ? Pictures like that are great evidence in court if it ever gets that far. I just hope and pray that if you do go there, you'll find nothing going on.

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i didn't read all the responses so i might be repeating something. if you're sure he is having an affair just do what you've got to do. if that means seeking a divorce just do it. there is no point or benifit in *****ing about it or going on and on. simply decide for yourself if you're going to take it or not. and if you're are going to take it, for how long. you're setting yourself up for a lot of pain if you observe them doing it. <BR>i recall how painful it was for me when i saw my xw with two men on the couch. they were fully clothed and just setting there but she had those painted on white jeans and i felt like the odd man out. so i can only imagin the pain of seeing her with them doing it on the couch.

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i didn't read all the responses so i might be repeating something. if you're sure he is having an affair just do what you've got to do. if that means seeking a divorce just do it. there is no point or benifit in *****ing about it or going on and on. simply decide for yourself if you're going to take it or not. and if you're are going to take it, for how long. you're setting yourself up for a lot of pain if you observe them doing it. <BR>i recall how painful it was for me when i saw my xw with two men on the couch. they were fully clothed and just setting there but she had those painted on white jeans and i felt like the odd man out. so i can only imagin the pain of seeing her with them doing it on the couch.

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