HBD - You are living my life...W won't deal with any part of the infidelity. She acts like it never happened, at least as far as I am concerned. She absolutely refuses to try to understand how I feel and is angry that I can't focus solely on the problems that existed in the marriage.<P>She complains to others when I am feeling depressed and she notices it. She tries to portray me as a sadsack who can't get on with life. On the other hand, when I am feeling good or at least acting like it(Plan A type stuff), she complains to others that I act as if nothing is wrong. I am slowly going insane. This reminds me of Captain Kirk causing one of Harry Mudd's androids to self-destruct by feeding it mutually exclusive truths....(Sorry for the StarTrek reference)