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#1767176 11/09/06 10:04 AM
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Eventhough there is a suspicion of my wife having an affair with another man because of text messages, phone calls etc. but no admittal should I go to Plan A?

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As I understand it, Plan A entails several parts. One part is eliminating Love Busters and trying to meet Emotional Needs, which is what we usually prescribe on the EN board. That part you can and should do (or continue to do, as the case may be).

Another part of Plan A is exposure of the affair, and since you haven't confirmed there is one, you can't really expose it. But I'd keep investigating. (Sorry, I've not got any really relevant tips on how to investigate beyond what you've already done.)


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