Hi Dev,

No one wants to tell you, "I told you so."

We don't want to add to your fears, we want you to be see your enemy clearly.

Your WW is not someone you want to give the benefit of the doubt to.




No one wants you to become an emotional mess. We want to help you see who your WW is, understand the nature of an A, and develop a plan of action to protect and save your marriage.

Hope and trust won't save your marriage.




There was a WH who used to post here named Goodguygonebad, and he was trying to break his addiction for this coke addicted tramp...He had a beautiful wife and loving daughter, one day he said this, "I know if I go back to the OW, the A will NOT last, but even if it only lasts a couple of years, it will be worth it to me." He eventually stopped posting, and we assume he left his family for a two year fling w/ that low life ho.

My point is....very often, WS's can SEE the A will go no where, but the emotional high they get from it surpasses all logic.

Some of the things she's telling you MAY be true, and some of them may not be.

Forwarned is forarmed.


~ Marsh