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I wouldn't say that it definately leads to worse things. In my case though I think it did. I actually just viewed pornography with my FWW because it seemed to help get her "in the mood" as she said. It definately was one of the causes that lead to her affairs.


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I understand the appeal of viewing the the sex act.
and I
do believe that most mens interest in porn does not revolve around some ideal beauty....but i do think it revolves around someone else...someone new and different...seeing someone new and different naked....fantasizing about having sex etc. w/ someone new and different.
I think that is what bother most women........and the fact that she MIGHT be his ideal beauty just makes it more bothersome.....painful even.


Nia You just Sooooooo hit the nail on the head.....

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