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Hum (and for Holly too) -- your counsellor is very right about the closure letter thing. I think I sent maybe 3 or 4 "closure" emails to my OW! You always feel like there's just <B>one</B> more thing left to say. It's never satisfying. What you're really looking for is the OP to respond back, hoping for that one more contact from them, and then you'll get your fix. Believe me, I know all about that...<P>--andy<p>[This message has been edited by airheart (edited October 07, 1999).]
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I agree with andy here... out of all the stuff on this long thread, that's what jumped out at me. I also sent a couple of closure emails, had a few closure talks, and if it's even possible, had a closure kiss. It all disguists me now. Without reservation I can say that I was looking for something: and I know what it was. I was looking for the OM to sweep me up, rescue me, and most of all STILL LOVE ME AND WANT ME.<P>Sad but true. It's either over, or it's not. That's the bottom line... and how well I understand it.<P>------------------<BR>~Sheryl<P>Marriage: the most important contract you'll ever enter into, and the most sacred.<P><BR>
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DAMN Andy and new_beginning!! You're so right...I'm such a fool!<P>I desperately wanted a response from him...still do!<P>He kept saying, "I don't know what to say to make you happy"...he was right!<P>Rejection SUCKS! Especially when the person who rejects you supposedly "LOVED" you! OH NO, I'm starting to hate him again!! Will I ever get over this cr@p!! I think I have to stop visiting this board!<P>
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