Building Marriages That Last A Lifetime
| Tax-deductible Donation | Site Tour | Meet Dr. Harley | Basic Concepts | Q&A Columns | Articles | Guidance Forum

Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum

This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at mbrestored@gmail.com
Forums Calendar Active Threads
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
Page 3 of 3 1 2 3
Re: Bad Night
#17980 10/07/99 05:49 PM
Joined: Jul 1999
Posts: 726
A
airheart Offline
Member
airheart
Member
A Offline
Joined: Jul 1999
Posts: 726
Hum (and for Holly too) -- your counsellor is very right about the closure letter thing. I think I sent maybe 3 or 4 "closure" emails to my OW! You always feel like there's just <B>one</B> more thing left to say. It's never satisfying. What you're really looking for is the OP to respond back, hoping for that one more contact from them, and then you'll get your fix. Believe me, I know all about that...<P>--andy<p>[This message has been edited by airheart (edited October 07, 1999).]
Re: Bad Night
#17981 10/07/99 08:47 PM
Joined: Aug 1999
Posts: 6,107
N
new_beginning Offline
Member
new_beginning
Member
N Offline
Joined: Aug 1999
Posts: 6,107
I agree with andy here... out of all the stuff on this long thread, that's what jumped out at me. I also sent a couple of closure emails, had a few closure talks, and if it's even possible, had a closure kiss. It all disguists me now. Without reservation I can say that I was looking for something: and I know what it was. I was looking for the OM to sweep me up, rescue me, and most of all STILL LOVE ME AND WANT ME.<P>Sad but true. It's either over, or it's not. That's the bottom line... and how well I understand it.<P>------------------<BR>~Sheryl<P>Marriage: the most important contract you'll ever enter into, and the most sacred.<P><BR>
Re: Bad Night
#17982 10/08/99 10:21 AM
Joined: Aug 1999
Posts: 374
H
Holly Offline
Member
Holly
Member
H Offline
Joined: Aug 1999
Posts: 374
DAMN Andy and new_beginning!! You're so right...I'm such a fool!<P>I desperately wanted a response from him...still do!<P>He kept saying, "I don't know what to say to make you happy"...he was right!<P>Rejection SUCKS! Especially when the person who rejects you supposedly "LOVED" you! OH NO, I'm starting to hate him again!! Will I ever get over this cr@p!! I think I have to stop visiting this board!<P>
Page 3 of 3 1 2 3

Moderated by  Fordude 

Link Copied to Clipboard
Forum Search
Who's Online Now
0 members (), 554 guests, and 89 robots.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Newest Members
Limkao, Emily01, apefruityouth, litchming, scrushe
72,034 Registered Users
Latest Posts
Three Times A Charm
by Vallation - 07/24/25 11:54 PM
How important is it to get the whole story?
by still seeking - 07/24/25 01:29 AM
Annulment reconsideration help
by abrrba - 07/21/25 03:05 PM
Help: I Don't Like Being Around My Wife
by abrrba - 07/21/25 03:01 PM
Following Ex-Wifes Nursing Schedule?
by Roger Beach - 07/16/25 04:21 AM
My wife wants a separation
by Roger Beach - 07/16/25 04:20 AM
Forum Statistics
Forums67
Topics133,625
Posts2,323,524
Members72,035
Most Online6,102
Jul 3rd, 2025
Forum Rules · Mark All Read Contact Us · Forum Help · Marriage Builders
Building Marriages That Last A Lifetime
Feedback | Terms and Conditions | Privacy Policy | Contact Us | Site Map | Account
Copyright © 2025, Marriage Builders, Inc. All Rights Reserved.
Site Navigation
Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 8.0.0