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"DON'T WORRY..BE HAPPY"... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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Well, how can I not worry? Look what has happened? I am very skeptical about all of this.....
"If you want a good wife, then you have to be a good husband."
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0 kids
Together 3 1/2 years
Married almost one year before DDay
WH EA 9/06
DDay 11/06
Plan A 1/07
WH asked for LSA 2/07
Plan B 03/07
LSA effective 3/07
H moved out 3/07
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I was trying to be positive with you.
I sincerely think you should feel encouraged.
My H surely never told me he loved me until WAAAAY after breaking it off with OW....
Love, remember the CONTROL issue...you can only control yourself anyways..all you can do is to work on yourself...
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I know Mimi and I appreciate it..Thank you...I know I cannot control what he does...all of this makes me suspicious and I hate being and feeling that way.
"If you want a good wife, then you have to be a good husband."
BS-38 (me)
WH-34
0 kids
Together 3 1/2 years
Married almost one year before DDay
WH EA 9/06
DDay 11/06
Plan A 1/07
WH asked for LSA 2/07
Plan B 03/07
LSA effective 3/07
H moved out 3/07
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I REALLY think it's gonna turn out fine.
Just keep up your PLAN A..be uplifting and inspirational...work on the finances....
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And tell us about the changes you are making in YOU.
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Love, remember the CONTROL issue...you can only control yourself anyways..all you can do is to work on yourself... This is true in so many parts of life. You can only control yourself. You can only work on yourself. Remember that. It is important at work, church, the gym. It is important when driving. It is important when parenting. It is important when dealing with your parents.
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Thanks Cinderella..Believer, I am getting ready to start another job that pays well so I will be able to help out a great deal w/ finances, I am still going to church and the gym, I am still in IC, and I am not being desperate, needy, or clingy...And everytime we talk on the phone, I am always upbeat, supportive, positive and loving.
"If you want a good wife, then you have to be a good husband."
BS-38 (me)
WH-34
0 kids
Together 3 1/2 years
Married almost one year before DDay
WH EA 9/06
DDay 11/06
Plan A 1/07
WH asked for LSA 2/07
Plan B 03/07
LSA effective 3/07
H moved out 3/07
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Ok, now he is being distant again...telling me he is busy, has a million things to do, blah blah blah...man, I sound so bitter...someone slap me and tell me to snap out of it !!!!!!
"If you want a good wife, then you have to be a good husband."
BS-38 (me)
WH-34
0 kids
Together 3 1/2 years
Married almost one year before DDay
WH EA 9/06
DDay 11/06
Plan A 1/07
WH asked for LSA 2/07
Plan B 03/07
LSA effective 3/07
H moved out 3/07
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What do you mean? He feels like there's too much communication with you? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />
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No, he says he is busy....real busy over there...we didn't talk at all yesterday, which is fine, but he did say he is going to call me in a little while...he is 8 hrs. ahead so he said he wud call around 12p, my time...
"If you want a good wife, then you have to be a good husband."
BS-38 (me)
WH-34
0 kids
Together 3 1/2 years
Married almost one year before DDay
WH EA 9/06
DDay 11/06
Plan A 1/07
WH asked for LSA 2/07
Plan B 03/07
LSA effective 3/07
H moved out 3/07
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So isn't it reasonable to express compassion and understanding regarding the stress he is under over there? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />
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yes it is...but , how do i know he is not still communicating w/ OW?
"If you want a good wife, then you have to be a good husband."
BS-38 (me)
WH-34
0 kids
Together 3 1/2 years
Married almost one year before DDay
WH EA 9/06
DDay 11/06
Plan A 1/07
WH asked for LSA 2/07
Plan B 03/07
LSA effective 3/07
H moved out 3/07
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I repeat:
YOU ONLY CAN CONTROL YOURSELF....
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i know..i need to be hit over the head w/ a cast iron frying pan..i am extremely hardheaded...
"If you want a good wife, then you have to be a good husband."
BS-38 (me)
WH-34
0 kids
Together 3 1/2 years
Married almost one year before DDay
WH EA 9/06
DDay 11/06
Plan A 1/07
WH asked for LSA 2/07
Plan B 03/07
LSA effective 3/07
H moved out 3/07
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So we're changing from 2x4s to FRYING PANS in your case??? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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Yes. I need to have electroshock therapy. God is trying to tell me something since all this has happened.
"If you want a good wife, then you have to be a good husband."
BS-38 (me)
WH-34
0 kids
Together 3 1/2 years
Married almost one year before DDay
WH EA 9/06
DDay 11/06
Plan A 1/07
WH asked for LSA 2/07
Plan B 03/07
LSA effective 3/07
H moved out 3/07
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You don't know. You find another way to make him show or tell you.
R U interested in how t/b creative in this regard?
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Yes Orchid, please tell me how I can do that...I would love to know !!!!!!!
"If you want a good wife, then you have to be a good husband."
BS-38 (me)
WH-34
0 kids
Together 3 1/2 years
Married almost one year before DDay
WH EA 9/06
DDay 11/06
Plan A 1/07
WH asked for LSA 2/07
Plan B 03/07
LSA effective 3/07
H moved out 3/07
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Ok Orchid, I wanna hear some more of your words of wisdom...
"If you want a good wife, then you have to be a good husband."
BS-38 (me)
WH-34
0 kids
Together 3 1/2 years
Married almost one year before DDay
WH EA 9/06
DDay 11/06
Plan A 1/07
WH asked for LSA 2/07
Plan B 03/07
LSA effective 3/07
H moved out 3/07
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