Keep a voice activated digital recorder around. Record your conversations when he gets verbally abusive. It will help get him out of the house, help with custody, and help get you the largest chunk of money that you could get. It is better for your child to live in a broken home than for him to live in a home where is father verbally (and maybe more) abuses his mother. One other thing you can do is change the locks and drop his crap on the curb. Sure he can get the police to make you let him in again, but he'll get the picture. Then get your recorder ready. You can easily get him kicked out.

oh yeah, one more thing about WH... after learining about it more, WH is a sex addict... has had past problems with porn...started off with about 500 magazines, which I got rid of because he wouldnt, so we could make a room for a baby...go figure...
WH follows the patterns of a sex addict also...lying to cover it up and the "behaviors" in private that go with it.

Do you think this makes my sitch even worse too? I installed porn blocker on puter years ago, so he has been forced to sneak it even more if he wanted it.
That unfortunately also added to the demise of our marital sf... I just had a hard time having sf with someone that was probably thinking of the red head he was looking at while being with me kinda stuff...etc.

The next step in an addicts senario is to bring fantasys to fruition...affairs for example.

I offered countless times to get IC/MC and was hatefully
turned down each and every time....after all its all natural, and all men do it. blah blah blah...incidentally, WH told me that men lie about it to spare their wives feelings...(that is so thoughtful isnt it?)

I really think Im loosing it...this is the first time I have had this many terrible days in a row since finding MB.
I plan on seeing if I can talk to my pastor tonight. I hope so. Please help me all....

I think I will call Dr. and see if I can/should get med dose doubled too. SAS