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Well, she doesn't exactly have to tell me because we haven't had SF in over 5 months, and she hasn't kissed me with tongue since then either (except for one time when she was really drunk while the A was still ongoing). She has tried to get me to give up several times by telling me that she will never kiss me or sleep with me ever again. She thinks I'm in it for sex (which I can't completely blame her because I used to LB her about our lack of sex), but that obviously isn't the case because I have been quite patient the last 5 months.
Jim BS - 32 (me) FWW - 33 Married 8/31/03 No kids (but 3 cats) D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA) NC agreed to - 11/8/06 NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07 Status - In Recovery Jim's Story
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Bmmg - when my wife moved back home, she would not even let me touch her in ANY way at all for 3 weeks. She had no feelings for me at all (apart from hate). After 3 weeks, I think she realised that if we were to recover then she had to make some effort.
So she suggested a walk along the waterfront near where we live. And then she initiated a passionate kiss.
We went home to bed that night (we were still sleeping in the same bed) and I asked if I could kiss her again. She let me and also said we could have sex.
We did then continue having sex, but it was "straight" lots of don't touch me there's etc.
She was then confused a bit because she still had no feelings for me. But we pressed on and the feelings and the love did return.
Now, 18 months post d-day nearly, we are in love and enjoying a wonderful marriage.
Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
Fully Recovered.
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