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Re: Activities to do with the OM believer #1809609 01/13/07 02:00 PM
Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 10,044 M medc Member
medc Member M Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 10,044	yeah, while it is the most solved violent crime 64 %... that still leaves 36% unsolved. And the vast majority of murders are not very well thought out. Crime shows have their place... they are informative... but many times a case has so little infor to go on... well, it just wouldn't make good TV. There are a lot of times as a cop when you KNOW who did it... but there is no way to prove it. It's just a fact of life. As far as murder being casually discussed here... it is all tongue in cheek... so lighten up a bit Mysc... or just change channels.

Re: Activities to do with the OM myschae #1809610 01/13/07 02:00 PM
Joined: Sep 2003 Posts: 27,069 San Diego County B believer Member
believer Member B Joined: Sep 2003 Posts: 27,069 San Diego County	myschae - These are FANTASIES of committing murder. It is something I would never do. But you are probably right - not a good thing to discuss, because someone might get ideas.

Re: Activities to do with the OM believer #1809611 01/13/07 02:03 PM
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medc Member M Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 10,044	People discussing stuff here in this fashion are very unlikely to commit murder... it's those one that NEVER say anything that you have to worry about snapping. "I never saw it coming..."

Re: Activities to do with the OM medc #1809612 01/13/07 02:07 PM
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myschae Member M Joined: Jul 2002 Posts: 4,957	Quote As far as murder being casually discussed here... it is all tongue in cheek... so lighten up a bit Mysc... or just change channels. I understand that you mean this to be 'funny.' And, it really might be if it was such an outlandish idea to people who are in pain than no one ever did it. Unfortunately, that is not the case. I realize the OP of this thread was just being funny, too. I enjoyed his post. I am afraid, though, about other people who might read this thread and, in a moment of desperation, decide to do something tragic. Murder does not have a place in MB philosphies. I am emailing a moderator to inquire as to whether or not this site has any specific policies on discussing "how to" commit violent crimes on this message board. I feel very strongly about this. I'm just going to be a stick in the mud about it. Quote People discussing stuff here in this fashion are very unlikely to commit murder... it's those one that NEVER say anything that you have to worry about snapping. "I never saw it coming..." There are lots of people who read and don't post. Mys

Re: Activities to do with the OM myschae #1809613 01/13/07 02:11 PM
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medc Member M Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 10,044	And your experience with crime and law enforcement is what? And trust me... no one is giving a how to... that would be very deatiled and done in a more private fashion. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Re: Activities to do with the OM myschae #1809614 01/13/07 02:13 PM
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devastated01 Member D Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 566	myschae, I think at some point, EVERY BS here has thoughts of inflicting bodily injury or of killing their WS and the OP. Writing about it tongue-in-cheek is a way to step back and laugh about it, AND NOT DO IT. God only knows the many sinful thoughts sifting through my mind when I think about the A, but I have yet to lift a finger against the OW yet (and probably never will). Dev BS - 31 (me) WW - 29 M ~2 years, No kids DDay - 2nd Dec 2006 Exposed - 15th Jan 2007 NC started - 14th Jan 2007 NC broken 23rd Jan 2007 NC broken many times since Status: WS moved out 22 March 07 "to think"; A ongoing still; 2nd July 2007 - signed Divorce papers "I'm done!"

Re: Activities to do with the OM devastated01 #1809615 01/13/07 02:15 PM
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medc Member M Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 10,044	Hey... are you allowed to use the word "yet" on this board?

Re: Activities to do with the OM medc #1809616 01/13/07 02:16 PM
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devastated01 Member D Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 566	Haha, sorry Freudian slip <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Last edited by devastated01; 01/13/07 02:16 PM. Dev BS - 31 (me) WW - 29 M ~2 years, No kids DDay - 2nd Dec 2006 Exposed - 15th Jan 2007 NC started - 14th Jan 2007 NC broken 23rd Jan 2007 NC broken many times since Status: WS moved out 22 March 07 "to think"; A ongoing still; 2nd July 2007 - signed Divorce papers "I'm done!"

Re: Activities to do with the OM myschae #1809617 01/13/07 02:19 PM
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Maybe2late Member M Joined: Jun 2006 Posts: 1,466	Quote I find the way committing murder is being so casually discussed on this thread to be very disturbing. There is no doubt that affairs cause strong emotions but this sort of matter of fact discussion of how likely it is to get away with taking the life of another human being is way, way, beyond anything that can be considered "marriage support." I empathize with the strong emotions that might make someone think about "killing" someone. If you find these thoughts to be persistant or start planning something then I strongly recommend you find a counselor to help you find ways to channel that anger out. It is NOT OK to kill another human being -- even if that person was involved in destroying your marriage. Murder is wrong. It's not "cool" and it's not a solution to your problem. Mys <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> M2L ME BH 36 - FWW 33 2 kids DDAY May 06 Sometimes waywards can be like Laxatives ..... They irritate the crap out of you.

Re: Activities to do with the OM devastated01 #1809618 01/13/07 02:19 PM
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medc Member M Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 10,044	<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Re: Activities to do with the OM medc #1809619 01/13/07 02:21 PM
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myschae Member M Joined: Jul 2002 Posts: 4,957	I have explained my concern about the content of this thread. I have reported the thread and emailed a moderator for clarification. I leave it now to the decisions of the MB moderation staff to determine whether the thread stays or not. I can live with either decision. I won't continue to derail your topic. I understand that people have different opinions and I respect them. I am not asking anyone to stop posting, change their mind, or stop finding this funny or valuable. Mys

Re: Activities to do with the OM myschae #1809620 01/13/07 02:22 PM
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medc Member M Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 10,044	good, otherwise we would have to consider putting a contract out on you.

Re: Activities to do with the OM medc #1809621 01/13/07 02:23 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 566 D devastated01 Member
devastated01 Member D Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 566	Quote good, otherwise we would have to consider putting a contract out on you. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> Dev BS - 31 (me) WW - 29 M ~2 years, No kids DDay - 2nd Dec 2006 Exposed - 15th Jan 2007 NC started - 14th Jan 2007 NC broken 23rd Jan 2007 NC broken many times since Status: WS moved out 22 March 07 "to think"; A ongoing still; 2nd July 2007 - signed Divorce papers "I'm done!"

Re: Activities to do with the OM devastated01 #1809622 01/13/07 02:25 PM
Joined: Sep 2003 Posts: 27,069 San Diego County B believer Member
believer Member B Joined: Sep 2003 Posts: 27,069 San Diego County	myschae - You know I have nothing but respect for you. I'll refrain from posting more about this. It could be hurtful to someone who has had a loved one murdered also.

Re: Activities to do with the OM believer #1809623 01/13/07 02:50 PM
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medc Member M Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 10,044	Quote It could be hurtful to someone who has had a loved one murdered also. now, that I can understand. ditto.

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