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my husband and i just got into a dicussion about the overnight on why should i talk about it. i told him i just feel that everything just seems to be going to fast and i am trying to keep from a big blowout between you and our daughter. because i know it is coming. i just trying to keep the peace. and of course now i am considered the bad guy of the whole thing because i am not giving into everything. i am the one that gets it from every direction about this whole mess. i have such a weight on my shoulders that i feel that i just runaway for a day and not let anyone know where i am. but i know i would feel too guilty about that!!!! i just want to scream!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Looks like we posted at the same time.
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she is a great kid! i mean that she is no angel but i dont have any problems with her at school or anything like that. and what you say is true about catering to her. he gives her money left and right and i just dont want her to get use to that. he says he feels guilty and he dont want to disappoint her anymore then he has already.
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Well, you and I know that it is not good for her. I suggest family counseling.
We had a poster here who went through H*LL with her daughter. WH was living with OW, and at first daughter hated OW. Daughter even came here and posted to us. Next thing we knew, she was calling OW "mom". YUCK.
Why don't you change your title to something about teen daughter staying overnight with dad and OW?
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just wondering if anyone has any suggestions about this. i dont want to be the bad guy of the situation but i really dont think she should just yet!!
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