i called the doctors office today and they told me the best thing to do is to write a letter unless i want to leave a message for our doctor. she is a really good doctor. so i think i am going to write tonight and drop it off in the morning on my way home from work. hopefully since she will know the full story she can start put something together for him. i truely believe he is in a depression. it runs on his dad's side. i see the same signs in DH as i do in his family.
some times i cant for the life of me figure out why i am putting forth so much effort for this man. it should be his and OW problem. but i do really love him and i know that is not my husband. i hope he can find himself again. i am really concerned.

update:
i dropped the letter off at the doctors office today. so hopefully she can have better chance on getting to the root of his chest pain problems. i havent had any contact at all with DH since the text saturday. i find really strange. but my SIL said she had called him Monday and OW answered his phone. she said she tried to start a conversion with her and she said she wanted to talk to her brother not her. DH birthday is saturday. okay question should i get him something? nothing expensive. he does love the Tyler Perry plays and i am thinking about getting him the one called Why Did I Get Married. It talks about affair and the outcome of the relationship . it is really good. he will like i know i hope it will get him thinking about the outcome of his relationship with OW and if it worth it.
i have been down the past couple of days with out any contact at all from him. any body out there with advice?

should i just drop it off at the store when he isnt there?
please i need help on this...

day 4
still no contact. it has been really hard. he called today but i didnt answer the phone. he probably assumed that i was sleeping since i work 3 shift. i talked to MIL today she told me what the doctor said about him. (he seen a heart specialist today) they told him that he has to start taking blood thinners and double up on his diabetic medicine and start eating right.OW dont never cook they eat out every night. i do worry about him. why? i have no idea it should be his problem but i still love him even all the crap he has put me thru. i guess i still hope that my husband will return to his senses and realize what is going on with him is not healthy.
no one didnt answer my question about his birthday. should i gave him a present and just drop it off when he isnt there? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />