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"We live in Sweden and we don't live by exactly the same moral as many people in USA but I thought that we had some minimum of moral, apparently I was wrong."

Trust me there are many people here in the USA that don't have morals - many.

Are you going to talk to this friend of yours more about this?


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Sometimes waywards can be like Laxatives ..... They irritate the crap out of you.
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Maybe2late: I understand that there is a huge variety in moral standard in USA just like in any other big country, but I feel that divorces are more accepted here. I think that his parents don't like what is happening but they don't want to tell their son what to do since he is a grown-up person and not their little child. They may reason that he will have to take the consequences of what he does and he will learn something from that. His father has made just one comment about the affair: "That is not going to become anything!" meaning that there is no chance that it will lead to a real relationship.

I will not talk to our friend again at the moment. I told him everything and he said that he wanted to talk to my man. If something happens which changes the situation I will tell him that.

For example I suspect that the OW has changed her mind about divorce again. I spoke to her husband three weeks ago and then the divorce was on, but there has not been any notice about in the newspaper (yes, some local newspapers here publish the names of everyone who files for divorce) and they are still living together. In that case she should not continue the affair and if she does it could be time to expose at their workplace. But if she leaves her husband I think that exposure would only make reconciliation harder.

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As I wrote I was disappointed with his brother but I think he will speak to my man about what he is doing and mention that I have talked to him. I am afraid that my man will think that I am whining to his brother. It was not my intention and I tried to explain that to him, I said that I want him to know what is going on, that I think my man will regret his lack of respect later and the reason I care is that I love him.

What do I say if my man asks me why I whined to his brother?

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