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She wants you to D her. She doesn't want to be the bad guy. Here is a suggestion. Call up the phone company and let them know that you will not accept phone calls from unknown callers. That way, she has to let her number be shown to your caller ID to connect with you. The whole time continue to plan A her, so she will realize that you aren't budging, you won't be the bad guy, and get her hooked on you meeting some of her ENs.

you have mail


EA Internet DD 2/06, 11/06
PA DD 3/20/07 started in 10/06
WW seperated 2/6/07
plan B 4/16/07
Divorced 7/09/07

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Ken,
I am a BH too. It is enlightening to hear from all these FWW about their "fog". It helps so much to try and get an idea about what goes on during this fog time. It's been just over 4 months since D-day for me.I hope that the fog starts lifting in my WW too. Hang in there man.


Married 23 yrs
WW-46
Me- 47
DD18
DD11
Dday #1 - Oct. 8 2006
Too many other D-Days to remember
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For the WW if you seprated how long were you gone for and can you tell me you were thinking, feeling etc.


EA Internet DD 2/06, 11/06
PA DD 3/20/07 started in 10/06
WW seperated 2/6/07
plan B 4/16/07
Divorced 7/09/07

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