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once he leaves thursday, maybe it will fade out.
i guess i'll check back in with yall this weekend.

thanks for not attacking me.


EA ??/?? - ??/?? PA 1.06.07 - 2.14.07 D-day #1 1.21.07 D-day #2 2.15.07 WH 27 BW (me) 26 DD 13 months old I exposed A to OWH on 2.5.07 H still has contact with OW through work Status: (me) unsure if the fight is worth it Status: (WH) confused, but hopeful
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You need to have no contact AT ALL with him. I know you don't want more pain, and that is the way you are headed. Work on things with your husband. Try that first. Just realize that you are very vulnerable right now, and so is OW's husband.

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When I first read this I had to walk out of my office.

What?? I just keep asking WHAT? - I know it's hard and boy I sure had thoughts of other women and just wanting someone to love me, but you can't have an EA. I'm glad your H knows about it. Maybe you two can start to work on your M now.

I will ask one simple questions

"How is that helping your M?"

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M2L

ME BH 36 - FWW 33
2 kids
DDAY May 06


Sometimes waywards can be like Laxatives ..... They irritate the crap out of you.
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