No she doesnt consider it flattering at all. She was crying to me about it when she was here. She wouldnt even make love to me because she felt so violated by him. I told her I totally understood and I wasn't going to put any pressure on her to do so. I dont think 2 weeks ago I could have done that. I was too wrapped up in myself. Thank you MB <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Well today she told me she wanted to go home early (before the kids) and let me take the kids out to her house a while later because she was going to expose him and she didn't want the kids to hear the fighting. She did and he left the house in a rage saying "I hate you bit**es none of you can keep a secret". He is a real piece of work right? She didn't tell her mom everything but plans on telling her the rest after she moves in with me (this is a conversation I had with her just a few minutes ago... very reassuring on my part as far as her moving in). She said after she tells her mom the rest her step-father will hate her and she will be unable to live there.

I told her to post here but she is still uncomfortable with doing that. In her words she "doesn't like putting her life out for total strangers to judge". I tried to explain that she would just be another forum post for you guys but she just doesn't see it that way.

Deep down inside I am very hopeful she is going to move in with me but I cannot let myself rely on it. No telling what will happen tomorrow right? All I can do is keep working on myself. It seems to be working very well so far so that's what I am going to concentrate on.