Oh I think he will be mad, why because he is no longer running the show, he also might pull the YOU should have waited crap, you know if you wait until the yr 2020 and he has still not found some his soulmate he would have come back, te babbling fool

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Maybe he will, maybe he won't. Maybe he will be relieved, now he can move on with a clear conscious. Who knows.

I know that I can live without him, and I will survive...

The kids have been wonderful, the house is clean, I found my garden under all of the weeds in the backyard, it is beautiful out. Life is good.

Life is too short to spend so much time in limbo, unable to move on (mentally). If I did not take the plunge there would always be the 'what ifs? Well maybe..." and it would drive me crazy.

This way, he has been pretty nice, he even fixed some stuff for me (a fountain and a light switch) that I had not had taken care of. He will hopefully still be inclined to be reasonable with me with the D.

His loss.

Hindsight is 20/20. There are so many things that I would have done differently. But I have learned from my biggest mistakes. I just have my own self damaging things that I need to learn from ALL of the time (ex. getting caught in his web every time he throws out a line).

I am still learning, still growing. And that is good.