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I like them too...that why when I saw it I looked up the link...was interested in seeing the video!

Good music helps overcome the day!

I'm in a better mood b/c of this thread today!

I love Shake it Off! I downloaded it as am ringtone the other night!


A loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge.
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Home Again - Carole King (FOR THE WS WANTING HOME AGAIN)

Sometimes I wonder if I'm ever gonna make it home again
It's so far and out of sight
I really need someone to talk to, and nobody else
Knows how to comfort me tonight

Snow is cold, rain is wet
Chills my soul right to the marrow
I won't be happy till I see you alone again
Till I'm home again and feeling right

Snow is cold, rain is wet
Chills my soul right to the marrow
I won't be happy till I see you alone again
Till I'm home again and feeling right
Till I'm home again and feeling right

I wanna be home again and feeling right


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Eph,

Here ya go. Try it in eenie steps.....


Journey

I’ll Be Alright Without You




Who’s Crying Now




Send Her Love




Separate Ways




Be Good To Yourself


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Carn

Awesome Pick!


Collective Soul

Better Now


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Strivn,

Your in the groove! Awesome selections!

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Did I say That?
by Meatloaf


So this is what it feels like
To be the one left behind
To give it all you've got, then find
You've already changed your mind

And this is what it sounds like
Crying on the bed that we both made
Waiting for a sign that you just can't give me
Any kind of sign

I don't want to be here wide-awake
Clinging to a love that can't be saved
Hanging off the edge of every word
that you say

So I asked myself, "Do I love you so much
That I'm willing to let you go?"
At the tip of my tongue the anser was "yes"
But, at the bottom of my heat I'm wondering...

Did I say that?
Did I say that?
Sometimes you know I over react
And what I say is not a matter of fact
I wish that I could take it all back

And you know I'd drag myself through fire at your side
And you know the gates of Heaven are surely open wide
And I need some sympathy here
And I need someone to call my own
I'm standing in the light of my mistakes
And begging you, "come home."

And I know you need some time to run and hide
But the truth is hard to swallow when you're choking on your pride

So I asked myself, "Do I love you so much
That I'm willing to let you go?"
At the tip of my tongue the answer was "yes"
But, at the back of my mind I'm wondering...

Did I say that?
Did I say that?
Sometimes you know I over react
And what I say is not a matter of fact
I wish that I could take it all back
But I said that

And I wish I could take it all back

And I need some sympathy here
And I want a love to call my own
I want to take you in the back seat now
And slowly drive you home

And I know you need some time to run and hide
But the truth is hard to swallow when you're
choking on your pride
I don't want to be this wide-awake

Fighting for a love that I can't save
And hanging off the edge of every word you say
Knowing that it might make me cry
I don't want to be this complicating
You can drag it out but I'll be waiting
I stumbled on "I love you" tonight
But it sounded like goodbye

Did I say that?
Did I say that?
Did I tell you that I loved you cause if
Would have been a matter of fact

Did I say that?
This time I'm not letting go
Did I say that?
This time I'll have and I'll hold
Did I tell you that I loved you cause it
Would have been a matter of fact
Did I say that?
This time I'm walking through fire
Did I say that?
This time I'll feed your desire
Did I say that?
This time I'll stand by your side
Did I say that?
This time I will be your pride
Did I say that?
This time I'm not letting go
Did I say that?
This time I'll have and I'll hold
Did I say that?
This time I'm walking through fire
Did I say that?
And I wish that I could take it all back

So this is what it feels like
To be the one left behind
To give it all you've got then find
That you've already changed your mind


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Jewel - Who Will Save Your Soul



here's one for greiving:

Jewel - Foolish Games



Hootie And The Blowfish - Let Her Cry



For Plan Aers:

Hootie and the Blowfish - Hold My Hand




Thanks Sky!


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ONE OF MY FAVORITES SINCE IT CAME OUT!

beyonce - irreplaceable



this is my thinking here!


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Here's one dedicated to my Sistahs! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Mary J. Blige - No More Drama



Another one of my Favorites:

lol...FOR YEARS!

Mary J. Blige - Not Gon' Cry



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I've looked for this one and can't find it online anywhere.
When you are feeling angry over the whole thing, this is a fun song. An Alternative rock song.

"Sinking" - Econoline Crush

Slash and burn
Insensitive
It comes all the way around and back again
Stunning move to make amends
Could have been a little more than faking it
You got what you want
You got what you need
You've got everything but me
Here comes the pay-off
What are you made of
You're empty
You're hollow
You're sinking fast (2x)
Cut and paste
To move the men
I don't know who you are now or where you've been
Thought I knew everything
Should have seen that guilty look
Deception
You got what you want
You got what you need
You've got everything but me
Here comes the pay-off
What are you made of
You're empty
You're hollow
You're sinking fast (2x)
Sinking fast...
You're sinking fast
You're sinking fast
Sinking fast
You're sinking fast
You're sinking... (fast)
Here comes the pay-off
What are you made of
You're empty
You're hollow
You're sinking fast (2x)
(Here comes the pay-off) Here comes the pay-off
(Here comes the pay-off) What are you made of
You're empty
You're hollow
You're sinking fast (2x)


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"It's only the fairy tale they believe"
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thanks y'all !!

Please tell me that I am not the only one who dances to the computer videos and any music that catches my ear on the tv... basically dance by myself here in Texas all the time..... why sit and fret... boogie !!!!

thanks sky and s4better


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Better Now ~ by Collective Soul

It's an upbeat, feel-good-about-yourself song

Interestingly enough, the song has to do with getting over his XW's A.

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Carn- Im at work, so I sing my head off...if I was home, I'd be dancing!


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S4B & Carn,

Love the Up beats!.... atta girls it's all for the team & gettin better.

Going through life's up& downs in hip stylin Attitude.

Can't change what's happened to us. We can choose, and change how we handle what's happened! Easy to become stuck!!

Hey Carn, nooo your not alone I love to dance, always dance onto myself.

Turned to dance as a kid and kept it up most of my life. Gave me positive building strength & joyous focus.

Your in your own fine company & Alive. Nothing wrong dancin away stress, worries, pain, shame, blames, shakes loose those pent up frustrations.

GIGO-- Garbage In & Garbage Out. Kick starts our own built in feel good hormones.

Observe; Trees- dance, Flowers-dance, Wind- dances, Water- dances, Sun-light dances, Stars-dance, Clouds-dance, Moon beams-dance, Oceans-dance, Fish-dance, Birds-dance, Babies dance, So can we...

We're designed to move, flow, go with the stream activity of life.


As they say don't MESS with TEXAS for a reason!

Crank er up! Get's the house work done quiker!

One my fav's... feel goods

Shakira-


Hips Don't Lie


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Ah, here are a few good ones from Toby Mac

Made To Love You



Get This Party Started



Divorced on 3/25/2008 but I have primary legal and physical custody of my 2 kids.

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Eph,

Good ones! Toby Mac is awesome! See it's a comin...

Gotta add my absolute Toby Mac fav of my mine. Hip/Hop, powerful compassionate msg!

This is dedicated to all the young mom's/dad's out there struggling.


Toby Mac

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SL,

Nice Touch, lyrics are wonderful! Found the video's! Adding a few more of her classics.


Carole King


Home Again



Re-adding the lyrics for you.

Sometimes I wonder if I'm ever gonna make it home again
It's so far and out of sight
I really need someone to talk to, and nobody else
Knows how to comfort me tonight

Snow is cold, rain is wet
Chills my soul right to the marrow
I won't be happy till I see you alone again
Till I'm home again and feeling right

Snow is cold, rain is wet
Chills my soul right to the marrow
I won't be happy till I see you alone again
Till I'm home again and feeling right
Till I'm home again and feeling right

I wanna be home again and feeling right



Natural Woman





Loving You Forever


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MV, Link to Meatloaf....Gifted powerful vocals. Moving

Did I Say That


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Thanks skylites! I didn't even know there was a video for it. I just like the song. Cool!


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