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I wonder why many recovering FW'S don't want to come here.
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We are only talking about the fogged out waywards active in Affairs, not repentant (feeling sorrow for the pain they caused to the BS) formers.
BSs have to laugh when we can. We've been through enough pain due to waywards, I think we deserve a little giggle at their expense.
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qeuto,
I am a huge admirer of the former wayward spouses that share their knowledge and experience here. They know who they are. I have read all your posts as well. But wildhorses is right; those of us currently going through the selfishness, viciousness, thoughtlessness, disrespectful behavior to our children and us from those we once believed and trusted with our lives have a need and a right to vent and rely on some humor to try to heal. This is a far more healthy method of coping than many of the alternatives.
Testosterone boys! Testosterone! It ain’t just for nose, ear and back hair anymore!
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>repentant
Careful of that word WH....in my time on the boards, that little r word gets more chonies in a bunch than a tornado through a trailerpark.
And q...when you lose your sense of humor, you truly lost it all.
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I am an admirer of anyone who tries their best to heal their family after levelling such devastation upon it, and I know it takes guts and determination to do it. HOWEVER, for those that choose to abandon their families and wreak havoc on everyone's lives, as the wayward does, these jokes are FUNNY.
Actually, I think that if MORE FWS's came here, we would have more insight and understanding, alas, their numbers are low, but that makes us here appreciate them all the more. I cannot tell you how blessed I've been to have people like Lousygolfer responding on my threads. It makes a world of difference.
Me-BS-38 Married 1997; son, 8yo Divorced April 2009
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Waywards, you can’t live with them and you can’t staple their tongue to a tree until they stop lying. Something about it being against the law or something…. I forget, it’s in my police report. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />
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Sometimes waywards can be like Laxatives ..... They irritate the crap out of you.
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Waywards . . . we have all expressed how we feel
Former Waywards that come here to talk about it . . . I have great respect for.
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Waywards, you can't live with 'em, and they're going rate on the black market is pretty low...
Me-BS-38 Married 1997; son, 8yo Divorced April 2009
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