Things to be expected from a WS, hmmmm...

Hostility - everything will be approached in negative tones.

Arguing or reasoning with a Wayward is like playing yo-yo with a concrete block on a string.

Prominent sign? The marriage was crap for X amount of years.
You'll get this feeling like you have been Jedi Mindtricked into thinking your entire marriage was sh*t. That's when you know you have been cheated on....

Rings come off.

New warddrobe - dresses better than usual more often. Usually, you'll see more new clothes purchased than just a "normal" clothes buying experience.

New style of music.

CDs or mix CDs of new style music or sad, sad breakup songs.

I love you but I'm not in love with you.

I don't love you anymore.

Once a woman falls out of love, they can never be in love again.

You need to hear about OP.

OP makes me feel this or that way. Puke.

Sneakiness on the computer

Sneakiness on the cellphone

You are no longer invited on errands, errands take longer than usual

Excuses to go out

Accusations that you are cheating

You are controlling me! I'm not your property! (Big one there...)

Nights get later and later before ol'wayward comes home

I want a divorce (after they are caught and confronted, usually not before then)

We're just friends.

You are delusional, you're crazy

Leave me alone


Two things will stand out to you:
1. Your spouse is a nutjob you don't even recognize anymore and you will ask yourself "Who in the ****** is this person? This is a bad dream"
2. Your gut feeling will tell you all you need to know, it just takes some a little longer than others to act on it.