Finished my taxes last night.

The newest deal is that she is starting to slowly introduce her new man to my kids. My four year old said that they took him a sub from Subway the other day. I asked if he comes to mom's apartment much and she said, "Some." She said he was funny. He also brought groceries to her apartment one time and my ten year old son met him. My wife often has a mini van that belongs to him. I feel ready to fight. I can't believe my wife is in such a mental state to be introducing him into their lives so soon. How does she feel ok with this? It goes against everything she's ever been.

I think this time around my wife will be able to beat the love I have for her out of me.

Howmuch,

If you W has done nothing else she has demonstrated that she has no boundaries when it comes to something she wants or her pleasures. You children ARE going to be sucked into this mess, unless you achieve legal means to prevent it. Your job is to be the best Dad you can be.

You also know that his OM, is probably going to get treated just as you have been. It will take years, the destruction of his family as well as your, but it will happen.

Your W has problems that cannot be addressed by you or church friends, or even her family. Until she is ready to address them, there is little you can do except move on with your life.

One thing you must realize is that you can love her even if you divorce her. You will always have feelings for her, even if you find a woman that you want to share your life with. So accept these things, and work on protecting your children as much as possible and focusing on your life.

God Bless,

JL