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It´s hard to deal with bitter divorcees who have not overcome all the issues from their divorces. I get that all the time in my office. PinkPiggy, you know what to do: YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO SAY NO and you are not in need of any help. You are the most normal person writing in this thread from what I read about the other posters. And I´m here to help should you need anything. I hope you get out of this forum and the toxic, bitter people who will try to put you down.
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and you pm'd her how?? since pm is not available on the marriage builders forum?
it is listed but it is not enabled and for good reasons.
just curious..
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AGG, you are killing me today! good to see you get out of the mud once in a while!
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We were acquaintances from another forum. We PM there.
AGG, you are so immature. Do you want the number to my office? I´d be pleased to hear you.
It´s so entertaining to see how you guys "scream and yell and throw fits" saying she is this or that. You can say whatever you want. I´m glad PP made her own wise decision and your unsupportive words will be a distant memory.
Goodnight kids!
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hey, only i am allowed to call agg names!
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good night everyone...
i shall sleep well knowing my children are well taken care of, that they have not been abandoned by either one of their biological parents, and that my bf has never thought i should not be with my kids so that he and i can have a new life without children from a previous reltionship getting in the way. and i am sure he is glad i don't feel the same way about his daughter, who he fight tooth in nail in divorce court for AS MUCH TIME HE COULD POSSIBLY GET WITH HER EVERY WEEK. yup, i shall sleep well.
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Could the selfish pink pig also be the NYpsy? (or psyco)
If so, pretty pathetic.
If not, they're both pathetic.
Husband was unfaithful to me before and after our marriage, at least 7 times. I found out 13 yrs into the marriage. Trickle truth for an entire year. Several different d-days, so it was more like a d-year. Difficult recovery.
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We were acquaintances from another forum. We PM there. That would be the wicked stepmothers forum? AGG, you are so immature. And you are so wise. Do you want the number to my office? I´d be pleased to hear you. Yes. Is it toll-free? Goodnight mom! Don't come back <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />. AGG
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AGG, you are killing me today! good to see you get out of the mud once in a while! Hehe.. I think I just fell into it with Psycho and Piggy. Help! Pull me out!!
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You are the most normal person writing in this thread Even more normal than you??? Wow... AGG
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"They may regret in the future, sure. But in the present time, they are happy and in peace. And that is what matters."
Wow! Did I read this right?
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so, they pm'd on another forum yet if you read ny's first post she INTRODUCES HERSELF TO PP HERE ON THIS FORUM LIKE THEY DO NOT KNOW EACHOTHER.
ahhh, we the betrayed have such a keen radar and i smell somthing very fishy...
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and, what is an ethical psychologist doing calling people names (agg, immature.. geez, that is MY line!) and mulling around in forums anyway? i don't think any reputuable acutal psychologist would be doing that.
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We were acquaintances from another forum. We PM there. Well that explains a lot. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> I am disturbed also by the kind of advice you are giving this woman.It is not "normal" for any parent to just avoid their child nor is it sound advice to encourage the lack of bond he should have in favor of the new wife's misguided feelings.How about you have her look at that? Priorities change all the time? Sure but when it involves children,it doesn't mean they are disregarded.If you decide to have children,which this man did,then they ARE the priority.We all suffer rejection of some form from our kids.It's part of parenting.I'm going through it right now with my own teen.Does that mean I abandon her in favor of a love interest? NO. You can throw titles around all you want.I'm an RN.There are also MD,s, CEO's and other degreed posters here.Bad advice is bad advice though.I wonder about your supposed degree anyway: YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO SAY NO and you are not in need of any help. You are the most normal person writing in this thread from what I read about the other posters. So you have extrapolated so much about us just from this thread have you? That is not an accurate assessment. Let's be honest.She probably mentioned this board.You came running over to join MB and offer support for her feelings of jealousy toward a 9 year old little girl.While they are her feelings and she does have a right to them,they are also not healthy and it would behoove you to encourage exploration in that area.
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Yep mhlb, I think you're right. Trolls galore.
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If NYPsychologist was legit she wouldn't be calling us "bitter divorcees" and she certainly wouldn't say "never think of your husband as a "fool" - he is doing the right thing". Odd that she joined yesterday...just in the nick of time, huh? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> ITA with those posters who smell a troll...
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If she were a reputable psychologist she would not be dispensing advice on a public forum, nor would she be trying to drum up business. I suspect she could lose her license for doing so.
My H's OW at one point was emailing me pretending to be a psychologist. It is not a particularly original trick.
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NO DOUBT Pinkpigster is NYpsycho *sniff sniff*......yup, smells like troll <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
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I'm still waiting for that phone number, so I can begin my much needed therapy to start the process of gaining some maturity... Oh well, until then, I'll get back to giving my friends wedgies; that's what we immature folks do around here...
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LOL....AGG, you crack me up!
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agg, you immature stick in the mud! you need years of therapy dear...
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I smell Troll shiit.
..and just WHY does a NY Psychologist need to be here at MB anways? You'd think he/she would have enough knowledge to figure out her own issues...or at least have contacts in the field who can help....
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well, NYpsychologist has some valid points, which are that each individual has his or her own opinion to state. . . selfish, immature or otherwise. . . as long as you own that opinion, and accept responsibility for the consequences, then the individual has been true to themselves. \
However, the judgemental and interpretive side of folks who are here because a collective bond, generally share similar outlooks on life, and tend to want to spread those beliefs to others as they enter the forum, right or wrong. . However, the reality is that neither Harley's methods, nor the web site followers, nor NYpsychologists advice can be right or helpful in every situation, there are always degrees. . . . and for the same reason, any poster can state his or her own opinion as well. . .
a problem or disagreement may appear between people with different philosophies around how to help, or how to interact, much like differences in interpretation about using a coupon for a meal on a date. . .
As i live and was reared by people who believe only one perspective, many different perspectives can make the world go around, and can live harmoniously with the respect that there is usually always another valid view point other than
your own. ..
and just because you, an individual poster, has had one particular experience and one particular outcome, does not mean that anyone or everyone going through the same experience will have the same outcome. . . there are probabilities, but only probabilities. . .
the best self advice to follow is to always post where you can provide a suggestions or support. .. and not to post when you start to get irritated at other stupid posters or trolls. . .
"resume play in sandbox CHEERFULLY! dammit!"
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